i like this boy and I think he likes me. like when we play dogde ball he tries to get me it or get me out.or when we play kick ball he always tries to get me out, but I went out with him before and now I'm scared he'll say no. and then tell everybody I asked. What should I do?
Additional info, added Thursday May 4 2006, 9:31 pm: if you wish to know he broke up with me because he "felt like it" but it was really because eI was writing "love" notes about him and that embassesed him. He also flirts with me in class, more in the hall since I'm older than him, but like the boys will go up to a girl and tug or swish you ponytail and say "PONYTAIL!!!" he only does it to me, and the other day at lunch we were playing around in my group and he tried my shoes together, he only does this to me and I'm the only girl other than his sister in our group, the other kids also say we are the "King and Queen" of the group. He just gets darker(he is mexican) and looks down he does that when some of our other friends tease him about me too.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Thursday May 4 2006, 6:59 pm: if i were you - id just go for it. the worst hes gonna do is say no and your relationship between you two wont change from what it is now. and if he does happen to say no - then its completely his loss. and hes not worth your time. im sure it will turn out fine, and just remember - if its meant to be, it will happen.
G.Dfan1902 answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 4:59 pm: well i think you should ask him out don't worry what other people think of you if you like him that much ask him out and it is normal for a girl to ask out a guy so best of luck [ G.Dfan1902's advice column | Ask G.Dfan1902 A Question ]
Vikki27 answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 11:16 am: It sounds as though he quite possibly does like you.
I know you're afraid of rejection and humiliation but it's just one guy and in years to come, if you don't do it, you'll back and wonder why you didn't. The worst he can do is say no. So what if other people find out? The point is at least you had the guts to ask and that's a big deal. Besides, every single one of those people that he might tell will eventually be asking people out and will probably also get rejected at some point.
ShYbl0nD3 answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 2:51 am: well he probably wouldnt tell anyone if you asked. But i mean if you went out with him before youll at least know that he chose you before so its possible he will again. Dont worry and just go for it! im sure itll turn out great!
good luck! [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 1:00 am: You know, you will never know how he feels about you unless you tell him. Live your life without regrets, don't worry too much about what you think might happen. That's one of my biggest flaws, but in the end, I just tell the guy the truth. You know. Even if he doesn't like you back, at least you know to quit trying and move on. It'll feel like a load off your shoulders. Trust me. [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
x3candiigrl answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 10:36 pm: If you like him then let him know... or flirting back always works. Even though he does that in gym doesnt necessarily mean he likes you either. He could just be trying to show off for somoeone else, im not trying to discourage you.. im just warning you. He could also jsut want to be your friend.
loves2shop86 answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 10:35 pm: hey! don't worry about it... who cares what other people say, it's your life! :) anyway, just be extra friendly and flirty with him! push him around playfully, pay as much attention to him as he pays to you, joke around with him... just pay more attention to him than you do to all the other guys you're around! trust me, he will get the hint and if he likes you he will make a move!
but you mentioned that you guys went out before? did you end it, or did he? if you ended it with him before, then he might be afraid of getting rejected again, so you may have to make the first move. just give it a little time, and flirt with him and see where things go! if this goes on for a few more weeks, then you will be able to tell if he likes you and you can make a move if you want! :) good luck! [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
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