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hi, im 19 and my boyfriend asks me to sleep with him i hav but im really embarassed 2 make luv with him....... wat can i do??
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alright, it is clear to me that you are no where near ready to be doing this. if you're embarassed to do anything EVER, that simply, in plain english, means that you're just not ready. don't do anything until you're no longer uncomfortable with it. maybe try talking to him about how you're feeling, and if he's a good boyfriend [lol] he'll help you figure out the problem =] good luck babe! ♥
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If you don't want to sleep with him tell him so. Explain to him that you aren't comfortable with it as of right now. If he really cares about you, he'll respect your decision and will wait till you're 100% ready and comfortable.
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well what you can do is ask him if you really love me you will wait and if that dosent work and he keeps presuring you then break up with him
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If your not comfortable with it, then don't do it. Wait until you are fully use you want to have sex with him. You shouldnt make love to him, just because he wants to, make sure you are 100% ready for that step also
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If you're not that comftrable now, don't. If he cares about you, he will respect your decision. Don't rush into it just because he wants to do it. Wait until you're fully confident and ready.
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Do you want too?
know that first.
and remeber the bible, "never have sex before marrage." I dont know what you belive or if you have no belives in god at all but that is also somthing you should think about. If he's forcing you to do it then break up with him. Dont be affraid to say no. If he gets mad at you or somthing then he's not worth it. But if you do..Well I really dont have adivce on that part lol. GOOD LUCK ;-)
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