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what should i do/say?
i like this guy....(duuhh) ok uhh and we were pretty good friends but we had this fight(he told me he loved me and i acted kinda weird /mean) and he never talked to me since than! then i called him and appologized but he only was like:uhu yeah blablabla ok and i do like him and everytime i see him he lookes at me today he even smiled once but i thought that was just because he was laughing at a joke...and at the bus today he looked at me in a sad kinda way....and i wanna be friends again but im just scared that when i talk to him again he'll be like all weird again
so what should i say? and how should i act when he's weird?? does he still like me cause he also never talkes to me??
please help
i'll rate!!!
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It sounds to me as though he does still really like you. If you didn't have any feelings towards someone, you wouldn't snub them the way he is doing to you.
However, by rejecting him when he put himself and his heart on the line like that, you've probably really hurt his feelings and I suspect he's feeling rather humiliated by it all too.
You have two options here. You can either let the whole thing go.....or you can speak to him about it again. Don't call him this time. Try to arrange to meet him on his own somewhere and try to sit down to have a proper chat. Tell him that your really do like him but when he told you how he felt you were a bit shocked/didn't know how to handle it/temporarily went a little loopy and you were wrong to act the way you did. Tell him you care about him and if he is still interested, you'd like to go out with him sometime.
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How do you feel about this?
If you really like him, like yo say mabey he noticed amd felt the same way.
But if you two ar'nt even going out and he says he loves you, to him what does love mean?
If it means I really really like you, to him he's crushing and he wants to know if you are back if it means I Like ya lots, It maybee mean Hey, should we go out? I should say this to gwet your attention or if he means I thibnk about you all the time. I will care for you guied for you and..ect. then He really has feelings for you. Have you seen signs that he likes you? All I'm saying is He might just say that to go out with you, dump you, and thats all, or you might be in a sittuation where cupid arrived my Advice is next time he says somthing like that, If you have feelings for him along time, you say you should go out but if not then take it slow. beacuse if not and rush into the I Love you stuff, soonmer or latter you/he will get dumped and hearts will be broken so watch your step
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maybe when he said that he loved you and you acted kinda weird/mean he thought that was a sign that you didn't want to be friends anymore..
try apologizing again...make it sound like you really mean it. tell him that you use to love his friendship and that you really don't wanna lose it over something stupid.
if he's still being weird then you should just straight out ask him why is he acting weird and tell him how much you want everything to go back to normal
hope i helped!
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Your reaction has hurt him and wounded his pride. Hence the sad looks and him not speaking to you. You must understand, he has the right to be angry and the right to remain silent. That is why if you wish to repair your broken friendship, it will have to be you to make the moves. Start conversations with him, invite him to nights out with friends, etc, etc.
However the best fix of all would be just to tell him how you feel. If you do like him, then swallow whatever nervousness you have and tell him because I am sure he still likes you! You could end up together, especially if you can screw enough courage to ask him yourself (this would prove how much you care).
Good luck hunni
Sapphire Lily xxx
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well i think you should say "well you know i really just wanna be friends and i felt bad at how i acted"
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Well, he might be waiting for you to go up to him and start a conversation. I think you should. Just start with small talk, and if you have any classes together, talk about homework, or anything related to that class. You should most likey acted calm, but if he gets to weird to talk to, just say "hey your weirding me out" and then ask him to stop. I couldn't be sure, but you should TALK TO HIM, about it.
Good Luck.
Leslie
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