yeah, i know... i really regreted it.. and i'm really sad and mad at the same time, i shouldn't do that.. he has a gf and i don't want the same thing to happen to me.. i do believe in karma that's whay i don't do things that will hurt feelings of other people, but i dunno what the hell came into my mind to do things like this.. I really want to forget it but i don't know how...
UberLucifer answered Thursday January 19 2006, 11:57 am: Well you wont forget it. Itll just fade away by time. Dont worry about it anymore you cant take it back so youll have just to learn live with it. But dont worry time heals all the wounds. Youll be just fine. Trust me :) [ UberLucifer's advice column | Ask UberLucifer A Question ]
rudy answered Thursday January 19 2006, 10:39 am: No need to beat yourself over the head because of this. Shit happens, we aint all perfect. Just next time try to think with your head and not your clitoris. pardon my language, i know im nobody to be talking to you like this, but the way i see it, you asked so i must answer.
But like I said, dont even sweat any of this, everybody makes mistakes, however, what makes a great person is accepting a mistake was made, and learning from it.
Good luck
PS. im sure you are a good girl that just got a litle bit carried away. [ rudy's advice column | Ask rudy A Question ]
jesa21 answered Thursday January 19 2006, 10:16 am: honestly hun, i dont think youll be able to really forget it, no one likes to be used.what he did to you was very hurtful. try to keep in mind tho that if you do see it as a mistake to sleep with a guy, you know is attatched, its even more wrong for him to cheat on his girlfriend. im not like most women on that, where they get so angry at the other girl. i believe it is the attatched persons responsability to be faithful to thier partners. try not to be too hard on yourself, you feel it was a mistake, but instead of letting it drive you crazy, try to just learn from it. like im sure next time the chance comes up youll know guys that are attatched, that are willing to be unfaithful are usually just out for sex on the side. it sounds like you learned a painful lesson, but my advise for easing the pain would be to avoid the jerk in question, and although i cant tell you what to do, id highly reccomend letting this be a life changing lesson. make it a personal badge of honor never to be an attatched guys on the side bedroom buddy again. it will prolly be angering and hurtful for a while, but turning it into a personal moral should help to make you feel empowered again. [ jesa21's advice column | Ask jesa21 A Question ]
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