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There is this guy at school that is really smart and really nice and really... cute!!I don't think he even knows I exist though. I was wondering besides being myself, how to get his attention without the whole school finding out I like him. I want to talk to him but I don't know how or what to talk about since I don't even know him.
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If you're up to it, start with saying hey, asking his name...anything. Ask him what he likes... things like that. Just remember when you guys start the conversation, you're not going to be the only one talking. I'm sure he'll take over the conversation at times, and get the chance to ask you questions too.
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`jessie
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It would be a great advantage if this guy was in your class or you had at least one class with him that way you can easily come up with an excuse to talk to him. ok so if he's in a class with you you can do this be absent for one class then come the next day and sit by him and simpley ask him if he was here the previouse day when he says yes ask him what you guys did in class that day and maybe even ask for his notes if you guys took any tell him you werent there yesterday and you wanna get caught up. he'll view it as just a normal conversation between you guys then you can start a conversation with him ask him if he could explain what the teacher was lecturing about and i think from there the conversation will keep going.
If he's not in your class best bet is to make friends with someone he knows, or better yet hangs out with and then eventually you guys will end up meeting each other during a luch break or something. you need to understand it's a lot harder to just get to know someone out of the blue if your guys arent some how connected by school,or work or something s it will take time but yea just get to know someone he knows then make excuses to talk to that person when he/ or she is around the guy you like chances are he'll notice you if say you stop and talk to someone he knows.plus! you never he might end up talking to you while your talking to his friend.
well yea thats best advice i could give for now hope things work out for you and him!
syireen
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'ello there! PurplePudgyPenguin here! I'm going to be your advice-giver for the morning (Or evening, whenever you read this..). Well, that's a problem all of us girls have to face at some point in time. Yes, curse the male species for being so complex! -cough, cough- I'm ok. Ok. First of all, if you want to talk to him just bring up some question about homework or something simple. See his reaction for it. If he sounds annoyed, I would wait a few days, try again, and if you still get the same reaction, just drop your feelings. No guy acts that way towards you when you merely ask something is worth it. Now, if the reaction is in a positive, warm way. I'd definately go for it! Say things like, "Well, I've been having trouble on this math problem. Could you please help me?" Just get his attention for awhile. Then, little by little (and believe me, you'll need a lot of patience for this), build up a trust with him. Ask him if he'll be your partner for a science lab, or if he'll come with you to ask the teacher a question. This may sound obvious, and so what if people find out you like him? I know it'll be annoying to have rumors floating around and gossip in the air, but dont worry. As long as you still love him, your emotions are gonna be stronger than the words people exchange. Who knows? Maybe, just maybe, he has feelings for you too.
I hope I helped. If not, then there are plenty of other advice-givers that could kick my butt at this gig (or job. I like to refer to it as a gig cause it's too fun to be considered a job ^^). Take care, hun! If you have any other problems, I'm always here!
Luvs,
~PPP~
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