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My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago because he said that he didn't have time anymore for a relationship. We had been together for over a year and now he's just quitting on me. He said that he just got a job and he'll be working all summer and stuff. The truth is that we met online, and we've actually made it work for this long. I don't know when we'll meet, but he's everything I really wanted in a guy. I've been endlessly crying every night and unable to sit still when I think about the fact that it's over. I'm still really in love with him and I want him back. I do have a job too now and everything, but I'm homeschooled, so I'll have more time on my hands.
So my question is should I ask him back out, or would it just be being desperate and bugging him?
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You should ask him back out.. what do you have to lose? I mean you love him. so you should try to get him back. People make mistakes and I know he hurt you, but maybe he'll feel the same way. You never know. Just go for it.
goodluck.
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i have a good friend, who i have had over my house many times. i have a lot of fun with her, & enjoy having her over, but she has never invited me over her house. i know her dad & mom pretty well, so i am pretty sure she's no hiding anything. anyways, i wouldn't want to be rude & invite myself over, but i really would like to go over her house one day, considering we're always either out or at my house, but never hers. what can i do to solve this "problem"?
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Well, maybe she just doesnt like being around her house. That's how I am. I hardly invite people over myself because it's WAY too crowded and I get annoyed really easily because everywhere I turn theres a different family member. It gets irritating. Also, we're redoing a lot in my house right now, like the bathroom, and some of the kitchen... and even my room... so that's also another reason why I don't invite too many people over. It could possibly be the same situation with her, but I'm sure she's not doing it intentionally. You can try talking to her and being like "you've seen my house so many times.. and you know whats weird? I havent ever seen yours yet." or something along those lines. thats what my friends say to me all the time. lol
But im waiting til my room gets redone to invite people over.
Just ask her without making it seem like you're inviting yourself over, it wouldnt hurt.
`jessie
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This is really random, but what's V8 juice like? What's the texture and taste? What's it made of? Is a can of it a full serving of vegetables? I've never tasted V8 juice. (link)
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Well, yeah... its basically like vegetables in a beverage. Yeah, it may sound gross but it doesn't even taste like vegetables. Personally, I love it. It's not a refreshing drink though, it's more of a rich and thicker texture. If you want a refreshing v8, you can try V8 splash. But in my opinion, that doesnt taste as good as the regular v8.
`jessie
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There is this guy at school that is really smart and really nice and really... cute!!I don't think he even knows I exist though. I was wondering besides being myself, how to get his attention without the whole school finding out I like him. I want to talk to him but I don't know how or what to talk about since I don't even know him. (link)
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If you're up to it, start with saying hey, asking his name...anything. Ask him what he likes... things like that. Just remember when you guys start the conversation, you're not going to be the only one talking. I'm sure he'll take over the conversation at times, and get the chance to ask you questions too.
hope i helped.
`jessie
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ok. i dont get anymore. im in love with this guy, and he said he was in love with me. so i thought everything was going to turn out happily ever after. but i was wrong. we havent been getting along lately. and yet i dont know i keep remembering how we use to be soo in love. soo everytime i think of the old times, no matter how mad i am at him, i think of it and i begin to get over it and think he is still in love with me. so its ok..for like..10 minutes then we just get in a argument and everythign turns horrible. no matter how many times he says he loves me, i cant believe it anymore, but yet i tell him i love him back cause i really do. i just dont know what to do about the arguements without having to like..break up anything between us. i still want us to work out. i just need some advice to keep it working out. help please =( (link)
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I know you think it's hard to believe him, but if you really trust this guy, just know he wouldn't lie to you when he says those words to you.
The only reason you're having doubts is because things are getting a little shaky lately... but having arguments doesn't mean you're in any less in love. I know its hard to keep it inside sometimes, but if you hold back some of your anger and try to sit with him and tell him how you feel... maybe that would be better. It's okay to cry, and it's okay to be brutally honest, just make sure you let him know somehow.
I know its harder to do that sometimes, but it's the only way to avoid the messy arguments.. and like you said those really make you upset. Just remember they make him just as upset.
Just reassure him that you love him, and let him know how much he means to you. Giving that kind of attitude will most likely allow him to be able to give you that type of attitude back. You'll be surprised with how relieved you feel after you communicate calmly with him. If you dont want to give up on your relationship, then let him know that you think you both are worth it.
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15/f goin out wit 16/m. i need to know two things. one it is about to be our 6 month anniversary and i dont know what to get him. he loves football (the eagles) he likes rap and R&B. i dont and cant work so i dont want to go over 40 dollars. and i also need to figure out something for valentines day. i wont be able to see him on that day but i will be able to see him on the 13th so i can give him what i want. but i dont know what. i was thinkin like a teddy bear and choclate but do guys really like that stuff? any help will be appericated.
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If he likes a certain cologne, you can get him that, or a shirt from the brands he likes. If not you can get him a CD with some chocolates. A teddy bear is more for girls, unless he likes that stuff :)
I'm sure he'll be happy with anything.
hope i helped.
`jessie
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I've tried to download AIM on my laptop, seriously, about 9 times now, & everytime I try to sign on, it says The AIM Service Can Not Be Reached.
And a couple of times that I've tried, it says that there were errors during the download.
Does anyone know what the problem is?
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maybe if you uninstall your whole AIM... so it's completely off your computer. Then you restart your computer and go to the AIM website again and try to install it all over again. That's happened to me before...So thats what I did, and it worked fine.
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There's this guy who I was really tight with over the summer. We almost went out a couple of times. I liked him on an off.. like a day thing. After the summer we just stopped talking. And then when we tried to talk he'd start an arguement and now he like hates me. So awhile ago I was veiwing his Myspace and I put some bitchy comment about one of his pictures. He sent me a comment back and asked me what that was about and why I'm so mean to him. I'm confused! I thought he hated me and now he's acting like nothing ever went wrong. (link)
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Well.. I'm sure he just didn't expect to get a rise out of you. You probably caught him off guard with the picture comment you left him.
If you want to be friends with him again, then try talking him out with him, he commented you back.. that means he either wants to honestly know why you left him that comment, or he's just looking for more arguments.
If he's acting like everythings alright again, then maybe he wants to try to work it out too.. but then again I dont know all the details so I wouldn't know for sure.
On the other hand, if you want nothing to do with this kid, don't let him see how angry it makes you. He's just trying to start arguments to get a rise out of you. You leaving nasty comments on his pictures may help you get all your anger out, but all its going to do is make him want to get more revenge, and it will just make him want to provoke you even more. But it seems like he was hurt by the comment you left him, and if I'm right about this then maybe you should try talking to him, and if he doesnt accept you trying to talk it out with him, then maybe he's not worth it.
good luck
`jessie
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I have this talking problem
I talk way too fast and my words stumble over each other
It is just a habit
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It's completely normal for people to do this, as everyone knows... but if it really bothers you, you can try a few things...
like allowing yourself a good 2 or 3 seconds to breathe before you begin to respond to someone if they say something or ask you something. I mean it sounds kind of useless but its really not. Something little like that can make a huge difference at times.
Also, whenever you read you can try reading out loud to yourself rather than silently... and you can try to memorize poems and recite them to yourself.
If you're uncomfortable and these things dont seem to be helping.. maybe you can take a speech class.
good luck
`jessie
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