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ok. i dont get anymore. im in love with this guy, and he said he was in love with me. so i thought everything was going to turn out happily ever after. but i was wrong. we havent been getting along lately. and yet i dont know i keep remembering how we use to be soo in love. soo everytime i think of the old times, no matter how mad i am at him, i think of it and i begin to get over it and think he is still in love with me. so its ok..for like..10 minutes then we just get in a argument and everythign turns horrible. no matter how many times he says he loves me, i cant believe it anymore, but yet i tell him i love him back cause i really do. i just dont know what to do about the arguements without having to like..break up anything between us. i still want us to work out. i just need some advice to keep it working out. help please =(
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♥ Well it should work out on its own.. the more you try to fix it the worse it'll be.. just let it fix itself
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I know you think it's hard to believe him, but if you really trust this guy, just know he wouldn't lie to you when he says those words to you.
The only reason you're having doubts is because things are getting a little shaky lately... but having arguments doesn't mean you're in any less in love. I know its hard to keep it inside sometimes, but if you hold back some of your anger and try to sit with him and tell him how you feel... maybe that would be better. It's okay to cry, and it's okay to be brutally honest, just make sure you let him know somehow.
I know its harder to do that sometimes, but it's the only way to avoid the messy arguments.. and like you said those really make you upset. Just remember they make him just as upset.
Just reassure him that you love him, and let him know how much he means to you. Giving that kind of attitude will most likely allow him to be able to give you that type of attitude back. You'll be surprised with how relieved you feel after you communicate calmly with him. If you dont want to give up on your relationship, then let him know that you think you both are worth it.
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You'll need to talk. Tell each other how you'll feel.
Me and my girlfriend have had so many times like that, but we stuck through them all and we have been together for a little over a year now.
Its only normal to have hard times in a relationship. But if you'll truely love each other you'll can get through them.
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ok i think that if you care about him and love him that much... u need to tell him how you feel and how you hate these arguments... you need to approach him and see how he feels and thinks about it... without arguing.. sometimes its hard.. but he has to no that you love him but this arguing is making you upset... and you need to no how he feels about it! well i hope everything works out!! <3!
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