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her house?
i have a good friend, who i have had over my house many times. i have a lot of fun with her, & enjoy having her over, but she has never invited me over her house. i know her dad & mom pretty well, so i am pretty sure she's no hiding anything. anyways, i wouldn't want to be rude & invite myself over, but i really would like to go over her house one day, considering we're always either out or at my house, but never hers. what can i do to solve this "problem"?
thanks!
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maybe she thinks her house is ugly or messy and doesnt want u back talking her about her house.
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Well, maybe she just doesnt like being around her house. That's how I am. I hardly invite people over myself because it's WAY too crowded and I get annoyed really easily because everywhere I turn theres a different family member. It gets irritating. Also, we're redoing a lot in my house right now, like the bathroom, and some of the kitchen... and even my room... so that's also another reason why I don't invite too many people over. It could possibly be the same situation with her, but I'm sure she's not doing it intentionally. You can try talking to her and being like "you've seen my house so many times.. and you know whats weird? I havent ever seen yours yet." or something along those lines. thats what my friends say to me all the time. lol
But im waiting til my room gets redone to invite people over.
Just ask her without making it seem like you're inviting yourself over, it wouldnt hurt.
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Well i understand why that could be considered a problem. It's not a big problem though. It's not like you alway take her on vaca and she nvr takes you. My deal is, don't make it a big issue. Just ask if you can go chill at her house one day. Rent a movie or something. and hey, maybe she does have something to hide, maybe they all do.
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Bring it up casually into your conversations, or subtly hint at it...like while you're talking, kinda go, "Hey...how come we never hang out?"
Or if that doesn't work, just ask her about it. I used to never invite my friends over my house because I thought my house was just too boring and I wanted them to have a good time. But when my friends asked me about it, and I explained to them why, they said it didn't really matter, so now I invite them over all the time. Sometimes confrontation is the way to go.
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be like, "we should plan like a sleepover this weekend, one at my house one at yours" this way it could answer your question without suspiscion
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just tell her how you feel...dont be random about it or anything just explain it all to her n i bet she will understand--MiLLiE
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She probably has her reasons. They may not be anything you would consider important. It could be anything from her not thinking her place is as nice as yours to people being messy housekeepers.
Have you asked her about it? If you haven't do. Just simply ask why she never invites you over. It could be something that wouldn't matter to you at all. :)
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Maybe you should make a surprise visit. Bringing a bouquet of flowers for her birthday. A surpirse visit is something that can lift a girl's mind off things whenever they need to talk to a friend. Girls really like when you are constantly thinking about her and have to make a surprise visit. Girls love to be visited.
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