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a friend or not?
ok i HAVE a "friend. we were best friends until around december. once in a while we call eachother without my mom finding or dad finding out. ok now we still "miss eachother" but i think she's a little unreliable. ex. she'll say i'll call you back in 5min. but the next thing you know she calls you in like 5hours or never even calls you back. should i still be her friend? cuz it seems like she doesn't even care about me though? so what should i do?
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I don't think it's a matter of not caring about you, but you do need to keep in mind that people are busy but it doesn't mean she's not thinking of you. You'll find in life that it's also not a matter of people being unreliable but more of a matter that people are not always going to say or do exactly what you want them to. Again, it doesn't mean she is not thinking of you. I would recommend that you open the lines of communication and talk. That is the only way you will ever know what is going on. Good Luck!!!
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Your over reacting, me and my friends do that all the time it dosent mean we dont care, some times things happen that delay friends from calling each other, or sometimes friends say that cause they get tired of talking. i think you may be too attached to this friend of yours if your debating weather to remain friends or not with her just cause of this reason. also why do your parents not know about you guys calling each other it seems quite odd considering shes just your friends not like a secret boyfriend or whatever.
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If you haven't talk to her talk to her and see what she says about how you feel. If she's a total jerk drop her cause you can't handle that type of crap if she doesn't have a busy life to not call until 5 hours later and have no explanation and do it again. hope i helped!!!
~queencece~
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she doesn't really seem like a good friend. talk to her about it & see what you guys can work out.
-hope that helped!♥
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