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'my parents are separated and i have experienced such unuttereable miseries- i even tried to kill myself. i think of myself as the damse in distress and my prince charming is ALWAYS AN OLD GUY. im a very popular girl amd this aatraction towards my physics tutor educational counsellors (all married and >60) and so many more people, has caused me painful shame and embarrassment in sooooooo many ways. i can't discuss this with my mum or anyone else (very orthodox family)I FEEL VERY ASHAMED AND ANGRY AT MYSELF- I FEEL LIKE A FREAK! can you help me understand what is wrong with me?
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Your far from a freak. I think maby that all thats gone on to you is causing this problem. Maby ur feeling unloved? and trying to find love from anyone who will give it to you (PLEASE DONT TAKE THAT IN A BAD WAY) it happens to everyone.. im not saying your a bad person or anything..Just maby you should find a boyfriend your age for a lil while. Maby you will relize you dont like older guys anymore.
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Ok so in science right now im averaging a 68. He said im missing two papers (he never even asked me for them) and I got a 70 on a test. All the rest of the papers i got A's on. Does this average seem right? (link)
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sadly its sounds like the right average. Test grades make a huge difference in your grades.
however homework, and classwork grades dont. BUTTTTT any zero's effect your grade alot.
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OK i want to know if this guy like me:
yesterday he talked to me a lot and made me laugh and he smiled around me. but he sort of does the same to some other girls. but what he did different to me is memorize my locker combo and he broke into it, then came up and told me he did. Today: he sat near me and ralked to me a lot again. then came up and tried to get into my locker and disapearred somewhere. He smiles and talks to me a lot and i can't really tel the diff b/w flirting and talking/smiling/laughing so i dont know if he is flirting or not. But what i want to know is if he likes me. Thankser! (link)
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i think you shouldnt try to get the answer from him right away.It might scare him off. However randomly bring up the topic of notes and be like "OMG i love getting notes, soo0 right me one when your bored" perhaps he will.
you both my start righting each other daily, and then one day he might bring up the fact he likes you(if he does) or you might feel comfturble in asking him, Or telling him how you feel.
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ok well i started hanging out with this girl named ashley.. and she drinks and all this stuff, (mind you we are all 13) i dont do that, and i only hang with her in school, but since then all my friends think ive been rude or a little diffrent, my old bffl *r* thinks that ive changed and she wants the old me back, but i dont know how to tell ashley, im scared she'll like want to beat me up, and shes changed me, its true, i see it in me. ive thought about this before, i mean i want to be friends with ash, just not like stuck together for ever. PLEASE HELP.
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13??? Sound like ashley lacks something in her life and she is using drinking for it. Shes doing it to look cool or she really does have some kind of phycological problem. Most people dont start drinking just to do it.
I think if your scared to break off the friendship then try doing it slow. Another words if she calls wanting you to hange out with her then tell her your grounded, or your mom is making you do chores. If she calls tell her "HOLD on" give her like a minute of waiting on the phone then come back saying "hey i gotta go someone needs the phone."
its sounds mean...but if this ashley chik is that bad of a person maby you should try it.
(sorry if my advice was no help.)
if you like my advice please feel free to ask for more...
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