I am 29 years old. I met this guy who is 35 years old. Both of us are single.
I have known this guy for three months now. We always sms to each other. I spent some time with him at a forum. He was always talking to me about stuff.
I caught him staring at me when I was with my friends. When I had a cough, he was caring towards me and asked me whether I was fine or not. He bought me cough drops.
buzzie answered Friday January 13 2006, 12:01 pm: I think he does definately like you, but I don't nessecarily think that he likes you in a romantic way.
From what you've described, it sounds like he's a nice guy who respects and cares about you, but only AS A FRIEND. I feel this way because it's been 3 months by now since you've known this guy, and if he was interested in a romantic relationship he probably would have asked you out by now. Also when you said he was 35 and still single, that made me wonder if he is one of those guys that's afraid of committment, or enjoys being a batchelor. Most men by that age are married and have children, or atleast have a gf. Sending you the card was a nice gesture, by I don't think it means he wants a reltionship.
I have a male friend who cares about me, when I'm sick he'll bring me over me cough medicine and he always gets me birthday and xmas gifts. He told me that he loves me as a friend. I am fine with this because he is one of my best friends, and a romance just might ruin what we have.
But the more important question is how do you feel about him? Do you want to have a close male friend or a romance? I think you should phone him up and ask him excactly where his head is. Let him know everything you've told us and see what his response is. It might turn out to be positive and you two can end up happy, and if not, while then you'll know it wasnt meant to be. [ buzzie's advice column | Ask buzzie A Question ]
gabby495 answered Friday January 13 2006, 9:45 am: YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Go for it!This may be the toughest thing to do ,but go ask Mr.35 if hed like to go out sometime.Carefull dont get to flirty! [ gabby495's advice column | Ask gabby495 A Question ]
karenR answered Friday January 13 2006, 7:32 am: I would guess he probably likes you.
Are you giving him signs that you may be interested? Next time you see him, go over and say hi.
If you like him then let him know you are interested. He is a little older than you, unless he already knows your age, he may think you'd consider him to old for you. You never know what they are thinking! So let him know you are interested. Talk to him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday January 13 2006, 6:52 am: Yes it def. sounds like this guy likes you in some sort of way obviously.. I would think if he`d go out of his way to take care of you then he probably cares for you.. It could be just in a friendly way but then again more.. Maybe he wants to start out slow like being friends at first then see what happens.. I mean he`s 35 so he`s probably mature enough to wait and see what happens..
I think you should ask for him to do something with you.. Maybe something small and simple at first and then see what happens from there.. Like going out to lunch or coffee.. Hope i helped.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
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