Question Posted Saturday January 21 2006, 11:41 pm
Ok so i like this boy. Hes pretty shy and doesnt talk much in real life but when im online with him he talks so much! He kind of flirts with me and i flirt back but i still dont know if he likes me..my friend imed him and asked me if he would ever go out with me and he just said 'dunno'. :\ what are some ways that i can tell if he likes me :)
SocialSuicidex3 answered Sunday January 22 2006, 3:59 pm: I'm a pretty shy person, too.
But shy people have a hard time being bold and blunt, and the interent is a good way to be bold/blunt without the physical communication
so if he 'flirts' with you on AIM, then I'm pretty sure he does indeed like you
But I can bet he likes you if he shows more attention to you in reallife, or if you catch him staring at you.
MummuM answered Sunday January 22 2006, 1:56 pm: Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.
-- Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
-- Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.
-- Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and HOLD it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else.
-- Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
-- Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking THAT closely into his eyes.
-- See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.
-- Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
-- Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?
-- Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting.
-- Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
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