alrite. so me and one of my ex's broke up the past may well he is like the love of my life. i love him so much. well my parents hate him and we are still friends and everything and now people are like oh yall should get bcak together ya know but my parents hate him and so i can't see that happening. we didn't break up for a bad reason. there was actually no real reason but he some how knows when i get a new bf because he doesn't want me with anybody bc he doesn't want me to fall in love with anyone else. its crazy like i have no clue what to do. so hmm what should i do..i don't really even know what im asking im just confused.
also the other day he stopped by and i gave him this huge hug and he kept kissing my head and then i just looked up and kissed him. i missed it so much that i just like had to. well it just brought back soo many memories and i miss them so much. do you think it was wrong that i kissed him?
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday December 11 2005, 8:04 pm: Aw this is actually super cute. Well, what are the reasons your parents hate him?? I mean I know it might seem old-fashioned, but I know I would feel uncomfortable if my parents didn't like whoever I was dating. Anyway, it's your decision, but maybe you can get your parents to like him in time. Who knows, anyway, if you guys broke up for no reason, you still like eachother...all of that...what are you waiting for? I mean I know your parents don't like him, but unless they have reasons like Ex. he's a bad influence then I don't really understand what should stop you.
You guys are both single people who still like eachother, so it's OK you kissed him. Nothing wrong with it. It would be a different situation if you didn't like him anymore and wanted to stay friends. Because taht would cause confusion. But you like him!! He likes you! So, why not get together? I think it's really cute he stopped by your house or wherever you were. I don't think you should initiate anything but keep hanging out and if he asks you out, go for it, and make things feel right again. Good luck (wouldnt it be nice to have him back for the holidays :) ♥ ) [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Sunday December 11 2005, 7:51 pm: no, i mean you both love each other anyway. persude your parents that he's a good guy & tell him how much you care about him & how much he cares about you. you should only bring this up to your parents after you talk to him about it. make sure you both really wanna get together & if you truly love one another er not. if you do, then maybe have him talk to them too. that way your parents can get an idea what's going on. try sticking with it if you love him though, because your parents can't always tell you what to do, so once you move out i guess it's all up to you.
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