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Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys?
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First of all, dont be so down on yourself saying your ugly and fat. Guys dont like listening to girls make fun of themselves. Build up your confidence. Guys dont like girls that are so down on themselves. Be yourself, dont hide under make up. If a guy cant like you for yourself then they have a problem cause no one should ever change themselves
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nothing is wrong with you. something is wrong with the guys. every girl is beautiful. when you do find that right guy, he will love you for who you really are, not what you look like anyways. i have been ready for a relationship too, but my friends just tell me to enjoy living my life the way it is, not longing for something you don't have. we will only be young once, so live your live in the "now". i hope i helped! <3 <3
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From what you've said, it sounds like you don't have a lot of self-confidence. I would work on building your confidence and self-esteem before getting into a relationship. Otherwise, it could lead to problems in the relationship down the road. What do you like about yourself? Make a list of all the good qualities about yourself. You may find that you have more going for yourself than you originally thought.
You may not have met the right guy yet. The guy for you will see you as beautiful and want to be with you no matter how you think you look. Not all guys agree with the average perception of beatiful. My husband said what attracted him to me when we met was the fact that I had curves and I loved to laugh.
Don't give up hope. You do have a Mr. Right out there somewhere waiting for you.
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Nothing is wrong with you, nothing at all. Guys are low when it comes to looks. MOST of them want that "perfect" girl; the one that is skinny and doesn't have anything wrong with her. I guess you could say you haven't met a decent guy, yet. (Yes, they are out there.) You just have to give it some time. There's a guy out there for you, one that will treat you right and will love you for who you are, not what you look like. Just keep looking for him, he'll come. Hangout with your friends, go out, meet new people.
Also, don't think of yourself that way. You're beautiful inside AND out. You should never be putting yourself down like that, ever. Let your personality shine through, it'll always win over anything else. Let people know you're happy with yourself and you're happy with what you look like. Be confident. Be out spoken. Be out going. Be friendly. Once people see that you're happy with yourself and you are confident, people will start coming to you. They will realize what a great person you are and it doesn't matter about the outside, it's the inside that means the most. ♥
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Well you just haven`t met a decent guy i guess.. You think your ugly and what not but don`t put yourself down yea it might be hard since you haven`t had a boyfriend in years but be confident in yourself anyways.. Somebody will come your way it just might need more time.. Try going out and doing things to meet guys go with friends.. I wouldn`t suggest jumpin for the first guy that comes your way tho get to know them and everything.. ♥ Dez
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lol I think the person means your self-conscience. Something like that..All i know is that it means that you aren't happy the way you look & feel inside. Maybe you just need to flirt and talk to guys. Let them feel like your available for a relationship. Go out with your friends & just mean some guys where ever you go. Or you can possibly go out with your best guy friend. Talk to guys. Start up a conversation. Be outgoing, funny, nice, & really like..cheerful. lol. Don't worry. I bet your not ugly or fat. Your beautiful, you just can't see it yet. You will once your confidence starts building up. And that's all you need, is confidence.
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Hey love.
Every one is beautiful inside AND out.
You should NEVER feel so low about yourself.
The key to getting some one to like you is liking your self first and being happy with who you are.
You have to have self confidence.
I'm sure some one does like you but you just don't know it yet.
I'm sure nothing is wrong with you and you're a very pretty girl.
The only problem that I see you are struggling with most is having self confidence within your self.
Take a piece of paper and pen and list all the good qualities about yourself.
I'm sure there are plenty!
If you need anything else or some one to talk to you can IM me anytime or drop one in my inbox ♥
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your self-confidence.
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