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Boyfriend
Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way.
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Thanks everyone i guess that it would be smart to just leave him now..so thanks to everyone for everything!!
-sxy247
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let him go. if you have any doubts about your relationship, leave it before you get hurt. I dont think its fair to be in a relationship with someone and like another person.
<3 CANDii x KiiSEZ
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No way honey. He needs to go. I know a guy like this. Except I did the dumb thing and said "Oh, maybe I should just try to work it out" and I got hurt...was he hurt? hell no he wasn't... He isn't worthy of your attention and affection. This is a sign to leave him. Good luck honey.
And when a guy says he likes you....well...how many other girls do you think he "likes".
Find someone else darling
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To be honest, I don't think you really trust him. It's really hard to have a relationship when you don't have much trust. And if you're into another guy, I'd say you go single and just date around. That way, you don't have to worry about being loyal and worry about your man having anything to do with other girls behind your back.
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if you dont love him and dont have feelings for him 100%, leave him. its not worth it. go out with the other guy you like, that way you'll actually be happy.
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Well you should give this guy more trust and stuff but if you like this other guy more then i`d go for it.. I mean i understand how you feel i don`t want my boyfriend for a year and a half to talk to his ex girlfriends.. Your young you can move on if you`d like.. ♥ Dez
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First, evaluate your needs and values that you've always wanted for a relationship. Has your boyfriend taken the time to meet these needs and values of yours? Has he even showed the slightest indication that he cares about your needs and values for this particular relationship? Consider those values and needs and even those things/qualities that you always wanted in your boyfriend. Your dream guy or your dream boyfriend. Take your time. Do not rush this very much and if you feel a sort of block when thinking about this, then ponder it later. After you have evaluated your needs and your values, then try to remember if your boyfriend has met these important needs/values of yours. Evaluate the good things that you like about your boyfriend and the bad things that you maybe don't like about your boyfriend. Weigh the prospects. Does the good out do the bad? Also, consider the circumstances when it comes to the bad. Then think about the other guy. Do you think he would do well with meeting your needs/values? Yes, I think you know what I am about to say. You have to talk to him. Approach him and see the qualities that you may adore in him and the qualities that you may not adore in him. This too will take time. Don't rush anything. If he meets your needs, then go for it. But first, talk to your boyfriend about your concerns when it comes to him talking to his ex-girlfriends. Don't attack him and don't be forceful with him. Also, I find it better when couples use the " I feel" approach rather than the " you" approach. Basically saying that "I feel" a sort of way instead of saying " you shouldn't do" . So stick with the "I feel approach". And this too shall take time. All of it should take time.
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