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Question Posted Friday December 2 2005, 3:27 pm

My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?

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RileyAlegra answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 11:59 pm:
Since it was your first time that's mostly why it's sore but just too keep in mind for the next time is guy's aren't always the cleanest people so just make sure that his nails don't have like dirt and stuff under them because that can also cause irritation.

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xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 2:44 pm:
you will get use to it..
since it was your first time you were probably reely tight so of course it will be sore.. but you wont be uncomfortable after all the times that he does that! you will get use to it. trust me

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 4:47 pm:
well it could be bc it ws your first time and your body isnt used to it or because it took you a while to orgasm if you did dont worry there's nothing wrong with you youll be all better again soon

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chaz_chorrell answered Monday December 5 2005, 4:23 pm:
Hey . the first time i got fingered i was sore its natural because your body isnt used to it. However if this carrys on for a long time then i advice you check it out hope i could help loadz of love
hope ull be okay
*chaz*

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Xxaddicted_2_uxX answered Sunday December 4 2005, 8:42 pm:
you probably felt this way because it was a new thing and you just aren't used to it. he might've of been doing it too roughly. next time your bf fingers you ask him to go slow and be gentle. after a while it'll start to feel normal and it won't hurt as much.

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Kristen03 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 5:41 pm:
It can be like that the first time. It's obviously gonna hurt sticking fingers up there if you aren't used to it. Don't worry about it, it won't be like this every time. You just have to get used to it..After a couple times, he'll loosen you up and it will actually feel good instead of painful.

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xO_Hollister_xO answered Saturday December 3 2005, 6:54 pm:
It's completely normal!! The first few times, it'll be this way. Once you get used to it, everything will be ok.

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simplyblond3xo1 answered Saturday December 3 2005, 6:47 pm:
its just that your not used to it yet.
its very normal it happend to me.
it just means hes stretching you out.
and it might feel like that for the first few times but it wont after that.

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hotrod answered Saturday December 3 2005, 3:08 am:
hey sweetie its completely normal the skin is just adjusting to having somethiing down there moving. if it continues to happen after more than say 5 times. go to a doctor. as of right now. dont worry.itll happen for a couple more times. after that its all pleasure. have fun

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HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Saturday December 3 2005, 12:59 am:
Don't worry, it is completely normal for your first time. Sorry to tell you this but its gonna be sore the next few times too. The irritation will go away in a few days though. Hope it gets better!

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hco_babe answered Saturday December 3 2005, 12:50 am:
normal. don't worry. it won't happen every time, just maybe after the 2nd or 3rd.

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smallbutsweet90 answered Friday December 2 2005, 11:36 pm:
no this is completely normal. after your first time, it has streched your skin down there so its udjusting. after a couple times you wont feel that at all anymore, but it just means your skin has strechted =)

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