There's this guy who I've been in love with 4 like more than past 6 months. He knows I like him but it seems as if every time i try to IM him he'll either sign off or seem not too interested in talking to me. The only class I have with him is study hall but we never talk there. I really want to talk to him more because maybe if he got to know me better than he might start liking me. I also want to get to know him better. There's no time tho where i could really talk to him in person and i dont know what to say. I really want to be with him and have conversations and stuff. What should i do? please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LoLo2454 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 8:31 pm: Try not to smother him. Im not saying you are, just lay low. Play hard to get even. before talking to him just get his attention. Wear cute clothes and be confident. Guys LOVE confidence. Then after completing that try IMing him again but just be casual and dont im him right away wait a few minutes. Then if he responds dont respond right away, wait a few seconds so he doesnt think he is the main priority (which he is). But if he doesnt answer you the first IM dont try IMing him again. just leave it there. Then just keep being confident in school. When you talk to him in school be flirty. I hope i helped and good luck :)
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Hi again! Thanks for rating me :) In order for him to know you are confident smile a lot and never look down when he passes you in the hallways. Keep your head held high. Laugh a lot and talk to a lot of people when he is around and he'll realize you are a friendly person. Good luck and tell me how it goes!
AsIaNsKoOGiRlY answered Saturday November 20 2004, 1:41 pm: Welps you should go up to him talk say Hey, what's up? and get to know him, ask him questions, what his interested in and evrything and if so give him teeny hints that you like him...nut like huge big hints but teeny ones so he can get the point...then you can ask him if he wants to eat some Lunch with you or to the movies on Friday or something
Please rate! Hoped I helped *Kelly [ AsIaNsKoOGiRlY's advice column | Ask AsIaNsKoOGiRlY A Question ]
AdviceKitty answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:17 am: Well u can:
-E-mail him
-Go to the movies
-Call him,and talk with him on the phone
-Eat with him,cafeteria or some other place
xxpinkeyeliner answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:47 pm: Sometimes it's an uncomfortable feeling when someone knows someone else likes them. It makes it uneasy for them to talk to that person. First, you might have to tell a tiny lie. IM him and say you don't like him anymore, you just want to be friends. Then become his good friend so he will feel comfotable getting to know you. Following this, be flirtacious but not too obvious. He'll probobly start liking you by this time, allowing you to not play so hard to get.
blondie42222 answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:33 pm: in stud hall sit nest to him and just be like hay..sup? and then just like keep talkin for a few weeks and see how things keep goin!
cuteskaterchick answered Friday November 19 2004, 9:44 pm: i have the same prob. just try to talk to him more if he doesn't talk back get some one to talk to him for u or even write to him he may write back!if he does like u he may be to shy
to talk to u!! just go with the flow!!
AsKmE135 answered Friday November 19 2004, 9:28 pm: Try talking to him in Study Hall! Don't be too pushy or anything.. just make casual conversation. Just start off trying to be friends with the guy, then go from there. And one question.. if you barely know this guy, then how are you in love with him? [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
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