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I had a boy very close to me,but I moved
now I miss him ,I'm really sad,
nothing is wrong with me, I think
in my high school almost all the girls have
boyfriend,I feel really lonely.
every time I watch them do their boyfriend-
girlfriend things I cry.sometimes I just want to
kill myself .being alone is killing me please
I really need to know what I should do,because
I think guy are scare of me but I'm pretty,smart
and I have a medium body why is this happening
what can I do?
I'm desperate
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whoa down girl, you're fine, if you think that not having a boyfriend is worth killing yourself, then you've got bigger problems hun. guys aren't that great trust me,talk to your mom she'll tell you the same thing i'm sure. and it sounds to me (this might be harsh but it's true)you're jealous of the other girls in school because they are getting attention from guys and you aren't, and i'm sure that not all of the girls have boyfriends
*~*shan*~*
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Well, don't be depressed go out flirt, guys like outgoing girls not depressed if always depressed then the guy wouldn't wanna deal with her cuz well they want a fun loving relationship so SUCK up and be happy, flirt with guys get to know them if you like them that bad and they are single then ask them to the movies and see what goes from there!!!
Hoped I helped!
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Kelly
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First of all a guy isnt going to be interested if you keep acting sad and look sad. You need to become happy. There are many gret things about life to be happy about. Once you get in that state of mind guys are going to go "Hey...shes pretty cool." You need to just get out there and talk. Even if you get rejected, dont let that get to you. Just keep going. Be outgoing, talkative, happy, anything that isnt what your acting right now. Step up and take charge of your relationshipless life. Get out there and get one. Dont wait for them to come to you. Go out there and get your groove on.
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1. don't put yourself down 2. do NOT commit suicide 3. you don't need a guy to make you happy 4. remember that you are beautiful no matter what 5. make a bunch of friends. and if you want to try to get a boyfriend, hang out at the mall or someplace where guys are with a bunch of friends-they'll notice you. you could also have a friend ask a guy that you like out for you.take a chance,good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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well u dont need a bf 2 make u happy me n my bff go months wth out having a bf
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Im sure one day youll meet someone, i mean how old are you? and otherwise dont worry about what guys think of you. theres a guy for everyone and maybe its someone youd never see yourself with.. you gotta look beyond the imperfections. Never feel like killing yourself because your lonely.. things will eventually get better. and youll eventually meet the boy of your dreams. And dont get upset when you see other girls and boys doing their "thing" just be glad to be yourself and one day youll be doing your thing. Goodluck! - Megan <3
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Dont worry, there will be someone for you, you just have to wait until you find that speacial someone. You shouldnt look at the people who do have boyfriends and girlfriends, just because you dont doesnt mean you have to be lonely. Find some more friends! And again, just wait until you find that speacial someone.
~Brina~
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aww .. it seems that way that ur the only one in the world that doesn't have a bf .. but 2 tell u the truth u aren't ur not alone! this guy u talk of u like him? then u should keep intouch with him get his phone number or email and see if u guys can't get together and talk! flirt with him let him know u r interested! and it's nothing 2 kill urself ova the right guy will come along and sweep u off ur feet u just have 2 look 4 him and 4 all u know he could be right infront of ur nose!! and ur a smart girl ur confident and that's a big plus a lot of guys look 4 confidence and u have that don't worry you'll find that special guy!!
*BeSs*
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DON'T EVER THINK OF KILLING URSELF!!!
Your life is precious,don't play with it!!!
I don't think theres something wrong with u.If u feel lonely try meeting new people,involve urself in some clubs or creatuve groups,stuff involving activities and people.Go out often and open urself for new friendships.Give it time,if u want love it will come to u sooner or later,just wait for the right guy.About the boy,try getting in contact with him.Write him a leeter,give him a call,or even get together sometime.Moving away dosnt mean that u have to leave ur friendship there,instead take it with u.Don't feel bad when u see the couples,think positive,u might even have one soon.
Good Luck,I hope u feel better.
If u ever want to contact me u can im me at madkitty8@aol.com
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Give it time..you aren't supposed to go out& search for love& what not, it will come to you when it's supposed to. Let things fall where they're meant to fall, and try not to dwell on the past. Look ahead& keep your chin up. The time will come when you meet a great guy& you'll be very happy, so just look forward to what you have in store for your future. Hope I helped! :]
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Of course you feel sad and lonely..you have moved to a new place..you have given up all your friends as well as a person you loved. Can you communicate to him through the net..the is the quickest and cheapest way??I dont think the guys are scared of you..but as you are new maybe they just feel weird as they die..right away..I know lamo..but it will get you MEETING guys and girls and even if you drop the clus..you will still have the friends.
I moved several times as a teenager..it was so dag gum hard..i hated being the new kids....i felt REALLY alone too..but i joined some stuff and met some friends and eventully things got better.
as an adult ..i have moved again..and let me tell nothing is as bad as feeling alone..even old artifacts..like me feel alone...
I wish i could wave a wand and make it better for you..but see if you can get that guys' e-mail or im or even a freind...and keep in touch while you make new ones.
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