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Question Posted Saturday November 20 2004, 12:37 am

I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal?

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hailebop answered Sunday November 21 2004, 8:46 am:
Statutory rape laws are not there for cases like yours - they are there to prevent abusive relationships where an adult has sex with somebody who is much younger than them. There aren't to my knowledge any hard and fast rules about how big the age difference has to be to prosecute, but it would have to be a significant gap to be able to argue that the relationshipw as abusive and the younger person wasn't able to give consent. In short, even if your state does have 18 as the age of consent, it's not going to be an issue.

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PerkyPeacock answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:06 am:
depends on the state, i think some have 16 as the age of consent, meaning you would be pretty safe. i'd try researching the laws in your state

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:37 pm:
no its not illegel dont worry bout it and knock ur self out ;) have fun and get ur freak on ;) lmao xoxo effy

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confusedbabii answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:53 pm:
no, it will not be illegal. it is only illegal if you are over the age of 18 and the other person is under the age of 16. as long as the other person is 16 or older it is legal. hope i helped!

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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AsIaNsKoOGiRlY answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:35 pm:
Technically yes, but he is close enough and if his turning 18 soon but a few months after then NO but if noone really knows then it won't matter much!!!
hoped I helped

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lyDia_LoU answered Saturday November 20 2004, 9:17 pm:
oh wierd! I never thought about that before...I don't know but will anyone find out that is like a police officer?

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LoLo2454 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 8:21 pm:
Yes...sorry. Just wait until he turns 18 and then it will be ok :) Hope i helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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KrayZeBeaUtyFuL answered Saturday November 20 2004, 6:59 pm:
No, i dont believe so. Im only 15 and my boyfriends 19, We can have a sexual relationship, as long as its okay with your both parents eveything should be fine! i hope i helped out!!
-MeGan*

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Saturday November 20 2004, 3:33 pm:
yeh hes still a minor.......but if u dont get caught u dont have n e thing to worry about! good luck!

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blondie75 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 2:49 pm:
DEPENDS WHAT STATE!! i live in michigan and if u did u could have sex right now! Theres the consent age. It's different in every state it's usually 16-18. go to this site [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) and find ur state! hope this helps!

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Asuka answered Saturday November 20 2004, 12:58 pm:
Depends on the state really. I think some states have a 2-3 year limit on that though. I don't think that the year or less age difference will be any problem though.

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AdviceKitty answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:38 am:
In some places it depends.But am aware that when someone turns 18 that person is considered as an adult and gets some rights,Like drinking ,etc(and depends too of the place)Take this advice of a friend,wait,wait until both are old enough and mature enough(not saying that ur immature,I mean it in the way that when u finish highschool,have a job,are idependent and dont depend on u family).
Take it slow,don't throw ur life away,sex can bring many consequences if not ready,pregnancy and std's.Think about it,and please,if u r desperate of having sex with ur boyfriend and cant wait that long,then atleast use protection,and it would be even better if u atleast wait till his 18.Hope it helps a tiny bitsy bit.Good Luck.

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buckems answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:22 am:
Kind of but not really becasue you are so close in age! And as long as you dont get caught like in a walmart parking lot you should be good!
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mxpimpette26 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 8:08 am:
well one depends on where you live two his 17...most places u can start having sex when your 16 n also his not 3yrs younger then you..so i would say it's all good...plus u shouldn't wrry bout that stuff...cuz it's really not that big of a deal...unless your scard that your going to get caough...which i don't think so!<3

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Politics_Junkie answered Saturday November 20 2004, 2:12 am:
In most states, the age of consent is either 16 or 17. Exceptions are too frequent to be able to draw conclusions without knowing what state you live in. You can find your state's age of consent with a quick Google search. Statutory rape laws are not frequently enforced in situations like yours, but there are plenty of circumstances (usually involving parents) in which teenagers have ended up on a sex offender list for having sex in situations exactly like yours. Being labeled as a sex offender for the rest of your life, which seriously hampers your ability to get many jobs, is not something to be taken lightly. Be sure to find out you state law and exercise caution. If you choose to have sex, be sure to do so safely.

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gimmeyourtots6 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 2:01 am:
of course it will be illegal!! it would be considered adultery, rape...yah...dont do it! its a bad idea, sex is fine, but u should be really commited and at least outta highschool, DO YOU REALLY WANNA GET PREGNANT AT AGE 18 AND THROW AWAY UR LIFE?? and dont think birth control and a condom will do it, bcuz it wont, just DONT DO IT, makeout, kiss, "play around" but nothin serious!!!!!

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QBillion answered Saturday November 20 2004, 1:50 am:
Depending on what state you live in. Some states let you have sex at age 16, but most states' limit is 18. So if you live in one of those states, then even if your boyfriend's birthday was 1 day off and he was still 17 and you 18, it would be illegal, and technically rape, but you won't go to jail unless he or his parents report you and they have evidents that you slept with him, and if they pressed charges.
Good Luck - QBillion

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Saturday November 20 2004, 1:28 am:
it depends were u live prolly not it is such close age diff that it wouldnt matter! (have fun)
HOPE I HELPED!
x &hearts; x &hearts; Michelle

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LilMia811 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 12:56 am:
depends where you live. some state say that once you are 16 you are at the age of sexual conscent and you can be with someone who is older than you but only by 4 years at the most.

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Sherry answered Saturday November 20 2004, 12:53 am:
Yeah because he's still underage. But seriously, how many people follow that rule? You see 13/14/15 year olds get pregnant all the time. So if you want to, have sex..its not like your being watched!

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