The thing is my dad suspects me to be perfect and the thing is I'm not. And i can never be. I can never be the girl he wants me to be and i dont know what to do anymore, i'd tell him all that but he would just kick me out and i would have no where to go , can you help me please?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? AdviceKitty answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:03 pm: Well what can I say? Parents see their children as their beautiful master piece and they just can't see the flaws.Your father probably feels like if you could do better,problem is that most of the time is never enough,and belive me I know how you feel.You have to try to let your father know that you understand that he wants you to be the best ,that he wants you to suceed and have all the oportunities he didn't have.But no one is perfect,but let clear to your father that you will still try to be the best you can.Sooner or later he'll understand.It is believed that parents want their kids to be and do all they wanted to be and do,thats why they put so much pressure,but dont let that pressure put you down.Keep trying and don't give up.Good Luck [ AdviceKitty's advice column | Ask AdviceKitty A Question ]
mesachick51 answered Monday January 23 2006, 9:12 pm: Hello,
My advice to you is to sit your dad down and be very nice about the situation. Tell him you love that he wants you to be perfect, but it is just not possible. Tell him that you can try to be perfect, but can't promise that you won't mess up ocassinally. He needs to know that everyone messes up at least once in there life. Hopefully he will listen and understand. I hope my advice works let me know ~MESACHICK51~ [ mesachick51's advice column | Ask mesachick51 A Question ]
IAmShammay answered Monday January 23 2006, 8:34 pm: tell him to shove it.. ;]
BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Monday January 23 2006, 6:25 pm: hey, okay nobody is perfect, and he should know that. sit him down and explain to him thats nobody is perfect. if he doesnt listen and kicks you out the best thing to do is to go to a relatives house or freinds house. im sure he will understand tho. any more questions drop a message in my inbox. hope i have helped. please rate. cait ♥ [ BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ's advice column | Ask BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ A Question ]
Alleycat45227 answered Monday January 23 2006, 5:45 pm: tell him that you are not perfect and nobody is tell him you want to be yourself..tell him that he needs to except who you are...hoped i helped some...♥ alley [ Alleycat45227's advice column | Ask Alleycat45227 A Question ]
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