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Im in a pickle!!!
Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?
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You're not a bad friend, i had the same problem. If you like him, you like him. You can't control your feelings. I wouldn't make a move or anything but they might not last, and if they dont, hint to the guy that u like him. You might not think it's good to like a guy that ur friend went out with, but u have to do what makes you happy. Hope i helped!
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Awwww! No, your not a bad friend at all. I know alot of people that have started to like their friend's boyfriend. I think that you should be honest with your good friend and tell her that you now have feelings for her boyfriend. You should tell her that it makes you jealous when her boyfriend kisses her and things like that. I think that it would also be good to tell her boyfriend how you feel about him now, because if you don't tell him you might start to feel even more weird around them. You'll become more jealous when they are around each other, and then you and your friend could possibly start to argue. It wouldn't be good to get into a fight with your friend! If you were honest with both of them, and just told them how you feel, then maybe when they are around you they won't kiss or do some of these other things that they do. You wouldn't become jealous anymore, and you would feel comfortable being around them. It wouldn't be as weird for you. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun!
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hun y our jus jelous and its this type of feeling that you want to get rid of him from your friend right?? well neways hang out with your friend more often but dont b possesive
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You are absolutely not a bad friend. Hun, if we could pick who we had feelings for then I would deffinetly not be in the situation I am now. You obviously have a crush on him and its natural to feel jealous when you see the two of them kissing and showing affection. What you have to do is keep your feelings to yourself for a while. Become his good friend. Talk to him, understand him. Unfortunately, she beat you to him but just take time. Their relationship won't last forever because relationships at a young age don't. All you have to do is be his friend and a little flirting won't hurt anybody. Good luck!
xOx Emmz
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Sorry but I guess yoou just have to get over him. You can't really tell her what you're feeling and you can't tell him. Maybe just tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable, but I wouldn't tell her you like him.
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No! Your not a bad friend at all! It's totally ok to like your friends boyfriend, just try to talk to not pay attention to them when they do things and talk to other people on the bus that you would normally not talk to. Your feelings for this guy with eventually go away and if you start talking to a guy when they kiss then you could start to like him instead! rate me please! good luck!!!
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that definately does not make you a bad friend. you just have feelings for someone, whats so wrong about that? ok, so its your best friends bf, that makes it a little harder, but youre not a bad person. and its completely normal to feel jealous..shes mackin on the one you want. just keep holdin on..who knows? maybe theyll break up and he'll realize that you guys would make a cute couple. just wait it out, it'll get better.
hope i helped, and good luck!!
~*stefanie
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You are not a bad friend at all.. u just cant help the way you feel. Just wait it out.. maybe your feelings will go away. Try to find another guy you think is cute and focus more on him. Hope this helped..good luck! Rate me plz! ;-)
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omg that is a pickle. Ok well i mean what is more important to your friendship or a guy? I cant give you an answer you have to pick it yourself. Make the right choice
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no, your not a bad friend. You and your best friend just have the same feelings for the same guy, happens all the time. It's life, me and my best friend like the same guys all the time. It's fun scoopin for guys together, but as long as I know she would never hurt me because she is my bestest friend it's all good in the neighboor.
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well shes ur rly good friend right? (or best friend). tell her u like this guy and she will understand. she wont get mad trust me this has happened 2 me b4. unless ur best friend is evil and crude then dont tell her other than that b open 2 tell the world!
o and ur not a bad friend
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Well i think you should tell your friend how u feel. She is your good friend im sure she will understand. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
good luck!!
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It is normal to like someone,ur not being a bad friend.U know ur friend more than I do,okay u know her and I dont.Ask urself this:
How will she react if she finds out?
My personal opinion:It is better if u tell her what u feel,than she finding out from rumors,from another person,or worst,if she notice that u r jelous.
A good friendship is based on communication and honesty.
See what ur friend has to say about it,she may:
1.Stop doing things in front of u.
2.Understand u
3.Yell at u
and let be real,in some cases break a friendship,but,if she does that,she is the bad firend.It is up to u,its ur decision and no one can tell u what to do.I wish u the best of luck
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Don't worry, you are not a bad friend. It is totally normal to feel this way. I always wish that i had a boyfriend, and i sometimes get jealous too when i see my friends with their's. You should let your friend know how u feel, and try to concentrate on other things for now, so that u don't think about him as much. You have to decide yourself if ur friendship, or your feelings for this guy is more important to you. If you think it will help tell your friend that u feel uncomfortable when they kiss around you. I hope my advice helps!
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no, you arent a bad friend. its something you will just have to accept and be happy for your friend. its going to be hard, but you'll be able to do it. just dont go out with him if they break up, its the biggest un-written law between best friends.
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Well, your gunna have to do the right thing and let her go out with him without disturbing the relationship. Sorry, but you would want a friend to do the same in a relationship like that. Oh no, feelings are feelings, your not a bad friend for liking him, just dont interupt. Really, at your age, people don't last for long really, I mean usually. I would just keep your flirt on and maybe one day he'll know.
:-) Good Luck.
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Just focuse on another guy for a lil while!!
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