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Question Posted Friday November 19 2004, 7:32 pm

o0k well you see i like this guy, that well my friends dont approve of. they say he's such a kid and he's immature and stuff. my friends go for the older, hot, guys with nice cars, this guy that i like well, his name is osama. funny huh? its actually kinda creepy, lol but well a while back, we're freshman, in the begginning of the year, he and my friend joe were in a fight, it was about a month ago and osama punched joe and things have been really shaky between them. but now i see him around and we make eye contact and i think i like him, i think about him a lot. my friends think im crazy and its 'just a 'phase' ' and stuff so yeah i dont know how to tell joe. osama doesnt even know who i am, our school is realy big. he's not cute or anything and i've never really talked tohim, but there's just something mysterious about him that gets me. but yesterday i told my friend if she knows him and she said yeah and i told her to find out if he has a gf and i told her i think hes pretty cute, and well today she told me she told him, and now today he went around asking everyone if they know me. he only knows my name. so hes trying to find me out, and i dont know what to do. i mean my friend joe, its gonna be tough on him and so what do i do about the whole situation? should i just come up to him sometime next time i see him and talk to him or should i forget about him or what? please help!?! ill rate you, thanks.

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TaTjEnJaMeS answered Friday November 26 2004, 9:52 pm:
Wellll.. what do you see in him? Its not really about what your friends see.. if Osama is tough and all that other junk.. yiiikes maybe you should look out, but if he's tough and yet friendly.. there could be a connection! I say get to know him a bit more.. introduce yourself to him if you ever see him.. and flirt =D Since Osama got in a fight it sounds like he's kinda not nice.. but don't make judgements.. get to know him before you do anything! Just get to know him first and see if you two have anything in common.. and remember it's not about what your friends think.. its those things that YOU see in him! Good luck >:}

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yellowcardluver08 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:16 pm:
Forget about Joe and Osama. You should go up and talk to him, flirt with him or something! You're friends shouldn't control your life and I'm sure you know this. Just talk to him what's there to lose.

Good luck, I hope this helps you, leave one in my inbox,
Caitlin

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MaLiBuBaRbIe08 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:54 am:
it doesn`t matter what your friends think! its YOUR chose not theirs!

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HunniBunni answered Saturday November 20 2004, 9:47 am:
First of all, if your friends were really your friends they would support anyone you like, and I mean I used to like a guy that wasn't so cute, but my friends really understood me and they approved, but if your friends don't approve on that, then there not very good friends. I'd say if you like Osama and you can't stop thinking about him then go for it! Obviously you know what your doing and that's the type of guy you like! Ok now the Joe thing, I think you should actually talk to him about it! I know it's gonna be tough but, if you and Osama go out with eachother he's going to find out the hard way. I don't think you should stop liking Osama just because your friend doesn't like him, it makes no sense. I went out with guy's my friend's didn't like. They were still my friends, the only thing they had to do was ignore the kid and don't talk to them. Once you start getting the hang of being with Osama, it will be easy to maintain your friends and your boyfriend. And get Osama's phone number girl! Talk to him more and set up little dates, because the more you guy's talk the more he'll like you! And the reason that you like him and he's not that attractive is cuz your not shallow! You actually look inside instead of just out. Hope I helped! Sorry it's so long lol. SEND ME SOME FEEDBACK, on anything not just that. I'm here to help! :D
-Bianca

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Hunnibunni23 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 12:39 am:
Well I think you should definatly talk to him! who cares if your friends dont approve of him! they aren't the ones that like him! [ and osama is a cute name! lol ] and Joe, if he is really a friend, he will respect you on who you go out with and if he gets pissed at you..it isnt your fault! you cant help if you like someone! i mean c'mon! lol and you should definatly try to talk to him becase then he will know who you are and you can be more ((*FlIrTy*)) around him and just be yourself otherwise i think he could probably tell if you are lieing or not...lol...so ya bottom line is i think that if Joe did get mad at you i think he is just jealous and ya you shouldnt just drop him like that because Joe and your other friends dont approve of him lol thats kinda gay..give him a chance and try to get to know him..try to find some stuff about him from people you know him and so you wont be like nervous about talking to him because then you will have stuff to say to him! lol well i hope I helped! *plz rate me!* if you have anything else..IM here for ya hun! :)
Love xoxo-Andie

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WoWsErS123 answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:52 pm:
Hey Sweetie!* okay when you said " i think about him a lot" then it means you probably ok most likely like him! if joe is your friend , he will understand that your in love and it shouldnt matter who the guy is even if they have a shaky relationship. My advice is confront osama! if you really like him then take my advice! hope i helped! good luck! *kLg*

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AdviceKitty answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:50 pm:
I forgot something important,lol,sorry for making u read so much.

I forgot to tell u that u have ur own taste and u have ll the right to go for a different type of boys,ur type,not ur friends type,Besides that makes u unique.Think about this,urlooking for someone of ur taste not the tastes of ur friends.
Therefor,its ur taste,ur rights,ur way ,ur boy,ur problem.have a nice day!!

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xbellaxobambinax69 answered Friday November 19 2004, 8:48 pm:
okay well it seems like you dont really even know this kid. but if there is something that is making you look his way then find some more information out about him so far i think you doing the right thing by taking it slow and finding as much information out as possible. but beforewith him more talk to him on th you go to fast start to hang out e phone, whatever it takes to get you to find as much information out about him as possable
good luck i hope i helped!
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xOx Emily

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MyPainIsReal answered Friday November 19 2004, 7:52 pm:
For some reason, this questions amuses me with the whole Osama name it makes me wonder if this is real question but anywho, I shall assist you. I don't think it really matters if you want to hook up with this Osama person. But, I think you should get to know Osama beings you don't know hardly anything about him and you just think he's cute. He may not even be good for you. Get his phone number or something and talk to him and find out what he is all about and then take it from there. Joe will be fine as long as you handle the situataion cooly and aren't all haha look I got a man. Lol. So yeah, there ya go Osama liker.=)

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