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Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
[]Confused[]
P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps.
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If he has a girlfriend but still is asking you out or trying to get you to then yeah I wouldn't go out with him. It sounds like he moves from girl to girl a lot. But if you just want to date and not really be 'going out' then you can just for fun but i guess be ready to be hurt? That sounds bad but it's kinda true. ]
go out with him and if he cheats on you then dump him!!! lemme no how it goes!!
good luck!!!
Kaela
FROGGIE7 ]
ok.. so he SAYS he likes you but yet he has a girlfrend and he ignores you at school? i say dont think of EVER going out with him b/c if he likes you right now and he has a girlfrend what tells you that he wont do the same with you when yall go out? i say just stay frends at MOST, but first and foremost.. follow your heart AND brain.. BOTH not just one of them. hope i helped...
the emperor ]
ya hun... I recongnize that type. He's what I'll call a "user and abuser". He'll be a jerk to you around his friends, he'll ignore you in public, but then when you guys are alone he'll flirt with you and stuff... But he's the kind who would cheat, tell his friends about private things behind your back, use you, and basically abuse you. so despite his good personality, he doesn't have looks to make up for his being a player... you probably shouldn't be more than friends with him. :) ]
he ain't worth it hunny, if he can't talk to you at school then who's to say that you're going to get anything out of him any other time? and this just in, odds are if he's the player type he doesn't really like you, he just wants to brag to his that he banged the new girl, don't trust him, find a nice guy who you know wouldn't do anything to hurt you, hope i helped
*~*shan*~* ]
I vote castrating him...then if he still likes you, you'll know it's because he really likes you and that he doesnt jsut want to nail (because, you know, he cant being dickless and all)...so yes. Castrate him and then you'll know. PISTRIX! ]
i dont think he is worth it, maybe just be friends with him ]
Dear confused ,
you are def. confused my advice is forget about him and if he asks you out again do what your heart tells you because i guarantee you nobody on advicenators can tell you what to because you have to follow ur heart
Love - Ashley
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ehh he so isnt worth it. dont spend your tyme lovin a guy tht will never love you back..and will prob break your heart..he dont even look at you in skool? wtf thts shyt. lol..no but i wudnt even think bout him..ah i kno it hard to get over him but i mean just think..do you want him to break your heart in the long run. he prob only asked you out cuz every hott grl he sees he asks them..but wut does it matter to him..and he wants is a gf..
<3 ]
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