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Friends
ok i have this friend lets call her cassy..shes like my bestfriend now..but when i met her i hated her cuz she always trien to steal my bestfriend at the time..and now that i hanged with her alot i think shes pretty cool..and we do alot together..well the other girl my old bestfriend (Hannah) always seems like to compete against me to get to her..and when ever me n cassy hang out she gets like jelous..i really just dont kno wut to do ne more..i mean i feel bad for cassy..wut do u guys and girls think i should do? thanks so much!
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ever heard of the three muskateers? course you have! everyone has! Make room for one more! Noone said you needed to have only one best friend! Let yer new best friend and old best friend get accquainted to each other! Hope I helped! Have a g0od one! x0Lallyp0p
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This comong from a girl with lots of friends, been through similar situations, and knows that it sucks:
You've got to all hang out together. AT THE SAME TIME!! I know its tough cause you feel like its a competition, but if you agree that each time you go out with Cassy you'll invite your other friend to come along, too... eventually she'll start inviting you,too... and everyone will know you're now a "group" instead of just a "pair." The competition is over, and you'll all have a lot more to do.
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Well, first of all. Why can't you guys just all hang out together? You don't need to be with just one friend at a time. Maybe if you spent equal time with both of them, the other one wouldn't get jealous over the other friend. Just try hanging out together and do other things TOGETHER as a GROUP .. don't just leave someone singled out.
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You should bring it forth that you feel liek you're competing against her for Cassy's friendship. The only way to solve it, is to make it clear that you realize that this is going on. Tell her that you don't want it to be a battle for her friendship. It might cause a big ol' fight but things like that alwyas end up being solved, just with time. It's the only way anything wil happen.
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