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Girlfriend trouble...my brother's Girlfriend
A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out...
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Wow,I think you should tell your mother and have her break it to him. Tell her everything that you remember her saying,because it may be the same way she talks to your brother. If you can give exact details that always helps. Tell your mom you have no interest in this girl in case your brother is wondering. She is not the one for anybody right now. She is pure trash. Your brother deserves to know and I want to commend you for resisting her charms.
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are you kidding? dont even talk to her.. but u shuld kinda tell ur brother really nicely.. if he gets mad be like haha APRILS FOOLS JOKE! and then walk away.. but if he doesnt then you did the right thing.. But no matter what.. DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HER..
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This girl is just gross. I would tell your brother about her, but be ready for some fireworks because he might not believe you. If your brother has a friend, maybe you should talk to him about it. If she is flirting and teasing other guys, she is not "the one" for either one of you. It might even be easier if you told your mom, and had her tell your brother. This is quite the jam. Hopefully, he will eventually see her for who she is: TROUBLE.
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wow... ur gay? u dont like sex with girls
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NOOO!Do not hook up with her...that would be sooo wrong..I really think you should tell your brother about this...or confront this girl and tell her that she needs to stay away from you since she's dating ur brother..I hope I helped..Email or write me to tell me how it turned out please...k?I hope I helped!GOOD LUCK!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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No...you should not hook up with her. Obviously your brother has ALOT of feelings for this girl. and even though you and your brother fight and arent close doesnt mean you should get with his girlfriend. and I also think you should talk to your brother about it, if she sayd this kind of stuff to you his younger brother, just think what she is doing with other guys. So my advice to you is not to hook up with her and talk to your brother about it. It may be hard to resist her and even harder to tell your brother but its something you have to do. I hope I helped <3 Jesi
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this is one of those problems where an advice collumnist cant help you as much as you can help yourself. do what is in your heart. if it were me it would depend on the age.(but i am a girl so it is probably different!) if she is much older then it might be sort of hard to make it work especially if they go to a college far away. and even though it might be sloppy seconds but if she is telling you all of these things and she is your brothers girl freind then either A. she likes you more, or B. she is a really big tease. and the fights with your brother may just be a faze. i hope i could help, and please dont rate me to badly fi you dont like the answer!! heehee!!
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