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im so scared
me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early?
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When you're in love.. age doesnt and shouldnt matter.. follow you're heart.. and you're right.. -If its love.. it'll all work out-
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no i don't think it is wrong to feel that way but if he really luvs u everything will work out for the best just keep talk about ur future together
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Everyone feels love at this age because of hormones so its natural. If you two truly love eachother youll be together no matter what. This may seem odd but my brother has been goin out with this girl since preschool and after college they got married.. but they were both feelin down when they had to go to different schools. They talked on the phone almost everyday and he even wrote her a song telling her how sad he was without her. and each vacation they got they spent it with eachother.. when the time comes youll know what to do but dont think about it much now just spend as much time as you can with him.
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I don't think it's wrong at all. You guys have been going out for 15 months. You guys must be in love if the relationship is lasting. Just try forgetting about him going to collage and what not. Keep the days going day by day that you have together.
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it is not wrong at all. my boyfriend and i ahve been going out for two years now, and i feel the same way. it is normal to love someone more than you love your self, or have a tear come to eye everytime you think of losing him. it is called love.
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It is normal to feel those feeling , my sister is a year younger with a boyfriend the same age, and he will meet new girls there but surely yo are prolly the *Gem* in his life so i think you will last :)
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NO WAY!!! no matter how old u r u can be in love.
my only advice is don't rush anything, make sure ur feelings r absolutely real and pure.
~Reenie~
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Hey, no it's not~! my sister and her boyfriend are the same way! my sisters 17 and her boyfriends 18, he just started college about a week ago and shes still a senior! she doesnt see him much, but they talk on the phone and on the internet. anyways, like you said, if it really is love, it will work out, dont think aobut the negative stuff, just the positive!! i hope everything works out! <3
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It's comletely normal to feel this way.you just wanna be with him who blames you right?well i think you should tell him how you feel not neccesarily breaking up is the answer but c how things go before u take any action cause if he really loves you he might just wait 4 u but by the way u sound i bet he does.well i hope i helped tell me how it works out...:)
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no it's not wrong to feel that. it's perfectly normal and natural. i mean cmon your 16. i think i's pretty much normal to feel this way in a relationship at your age.
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aww thats so sweet! and you still have one more year together..but if i were you i'd tell your bf how you feel and how much you are in love with him..if its true love, when he goes to college it won't ruin your relationship bc u two will be able to trust eachother and keep in touch everyday over the phone or computer or something..also u can make a point of visiting him as often as you can..and its perfectly normal to be feeling that way!! but don't worry about it! i'm sure everything will work out in the end!! good luck! <33
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I would tell u there was a problem if you didn't feel this way. You are plenty old enough to decide what u are really feeling and who u want to spend the rest of your life w/! I on the other hand still have a while to go. Express your feelings to him and make sure he feels the same! Good luck sweetie! Lemme know how it goes! =) -*-Sonnie-*-
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Is it "wRong" to feel like that "so eaRly"?? No, not at all; it's peRfectly undeRstandable. I wouldn't sweat it quite yet though, he still has a whole yeaR. But peRhaps it would make you feel betteR if you told him how you feel.. and see what he can do to comfoRt you and set youR mind at ease. I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!
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NO! It's not wrong to feel that way at all. 15 months is along time to be going out with someone. You can't control how you feel, you really love this kid! Just tell him how you're feeling, I'm sure he feels the same way. Just be like "You know I love you so much, but you'll be going off to college and I'll just be a senior, I'm so afraid we're going to break up, I don't want to lose you, I don't know what I would do if I lost you.." Just say something like that and go from there. Just talk to him about how you're feeling and then you two can talk about it. You just have to make it work and just trust each other and be positive about it for it to work, and talk to each other when you think something is wrong or whatever. Hope this helps! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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of course not. Love can come at any age. It is totally normal to have these feelings. And you are right. If you two love each other, you will find a way to be together. :)
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tell him how you feel!! i dont think its abnormal either..i think you're really in love!! make sure he knows how you feel...tell him how much you love him and how you never want to lose him...good luck!! let me know how it works out my sn is on my column. :)
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its not completely wronq to feel like this at such a younq aqe, but you DO both need to see other people at some point, if he loves you as much as you love him, then you wont lose him when he leaves for college.. and dependinq on the colleqe he will probably come visit you pretty often anyways, you quys could break up, but there are other people out there, i really dont think you will break up but remember its not the end of the world just because somethinq bad happens, life and love both qo on.. hope i helped
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