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home crisis
so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah
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if u really don't like it with ur mom and u truely feel like u should move bak with ur granny do it...don't let anyone talk u out of something u feel is right...and don't listen to ur sister yeah ur mom might hav left u but u aren't ur mom and sister needs to get a grip
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No body can help you with that desion!
Whatever you choose is what you want!
We know nothing about your family and what has happened!
You need to do what you think is right for you!
And you will feel so much better!
Hope i helped!
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i would do whatever you feel would make YOU happy, not your mom or your sister..if you hate it with your mom and her new husband then i would move back in with your granny..it's up to you though! good luck with everything! xOx
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you whatever makes you happy and your granny is willing to let u live there so i say..move in with granny
hope u make the right choice
trumpet
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I think you should move back in with your granny.as long as you love your mom and she loves you she'll understand.And as long as your mom loves yu i'm sure all she wants is for you to be happy too.
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You shouldn't feel bad about it!! You're mom must of never realized how her moving in with this man would affect you! First you should tell your mother how miserable you are there and that unless something changes you're going to move back in with your Grandmother. Plus I'm sure it would make her happy to see you be happy, even if that means living with someone else! good luck!! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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EEEK GASH... DONT FEEL BAD AT ALL. IF YOU DONT LIKE LIVIN WIF YOUR MOMMA, LEAVE. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE SOMEWHERE ELSE TO GO, &IT'LL BE AWESOME-O FOR YOU TO LIVE THERE. LEAVE, IF YOU DO FEEL BAD YOUR A WONDERFUL SON, BUT YOUR MOM SHOULD FEEL BAD.. IF SHE LEFT YOU&IS NOW MAKING YOUR LIFE HELL BY LIVIN WIF HER... HM... SOMETHINGS NOT RIGHT THERE....
LAURYN<3
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if your not happy and you want to go back to your granny's then your mom is just gonna have to accept that. yeah i sound kinda selfish, but this is about YOUR happiness.
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If you absoulutly hate it at your mothers house then maybe you should reconsider moving back in with your grandma. It was your mom that wanted to move not you. You shouldnt be unhappy and your grandma seems like she REALLY cares for you and thats good, Your very lucky to have her :) what ever you do decide to do feel free to leave a message in my box to keep in touch. I hope the best of it!
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Do it.
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If you hate, tell your mom, and say that you need some space. Its really hard on you and your sis, and you just cant stand the situation. She should understand, and yea blah blah. Its always going to be hard in that kind of situation for someone. Lucky you!
XoxO ALissa
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I don't know how old you are, but I am going to assume you aren't like any younger than 12. First of all, does your mother WANT custody of you, and if thats the case, why did she not make you move in with her when she moved? If the answer to that question is, she knew that you didn't want to leave your life behind and have to move into this man's house, then she understands how you feel. I think you should sit down with your mother and tell her how you feel. Both of you deserve that. Your mother will hopefully understand how you feel and give you her blessing to move in with your grandmother. And if your mother does not understand where you are coming from, depending on how old you are, you can make the decision on your own. Otherwise, I'm sorry to say, you might be stuck in a tough position that you will have to live out until you are 18 and then once you reach that age, you can move out. Hang in there. Your sister is right, your mother was the one who made the choice to move out, you are allowed to not like where you live right now. As I said, hang in there. And if you need any more advice, please feel free to drop me a message. I hope I helped you.
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Move back! Your feelings obviously don't matter to your overly selfish mother. Over the woods and through the whatever blah to GRANDMOTHERS blah house we go.
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if you feel that living with your mom is making you utterly sad and/or depressed, then i think that you should move in with your grandmother.
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