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boyfriend trouble!!!
Heyeveryone, i really need some help!! ok, well, i did something stupid about a month ago..i talked to some guy online and gave him my picture..and i have a boyfriend that i really love. I guess why i talked to that guy was because he asked me about my boyfriend. And my boyfriend is moving to oregon and so i kinda opened up and talked to that guy about my b/f. now, my b/f found that convo and was really scared about our relationship. He said he trusted me 100% but now, he says only like 50%. Im so0o upset i've told him i'll never do that again..but he dont believe me..he's in oregon and we are doing long dist. How can i make him trust me more?! I really love him with all my heart and I want to make it work out. Any advice on my situation?! PLEASE HELP!!! ~manda~
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.:Well the number one key in a relationship is trust if u dont have trust what do u have?You would say the same thing if u found out he did it too..If you both really love n care about each other u all are gonna stay together .You can earnur trust back.It mite take awhile but im sure everything will be good:.
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WELL FIRST OFF... WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU DO THE WHOLE "S2R" THING??! HAHA.. NE WAYS... IF HE TRUSTED YOU 100% BEFORE& NOW ITS 50% BECAUSE YOU TOLD SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF SEEING EVER.... ABOUT HIM, HES NOT WORTH IT. &I DONT WANT TO TELL YOU THAT IF YOU KEEP EXPLAING TO HIM THAT IT WILL WORK OUT, BUT IT TOTALLLY COULD ON THE OTHER HAND, JUST DONT LEAN TOWARDS ONE SIDE, KEEP BOTH GOOD&BAD IN MIND!!
LAURYN<3
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Just straight up say that was a | B I G | mistake and it will never happen again. Talk to that guy again and be like 'i love my boyfriend SOOO much and i'd choose him over any guy' and send that convo. to your boyfriend. That will hopefully make him feel alittle better. Good Luck. :D
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Well i have been in the same situation before, but u should tell him calmly exactly what happened. Dont lie to him, and see if he will give you another chance. If not then he isnt good enought for you. If he says yes then do as best as you can, and try to keep in touch with what all you are saying to other guys. I hope it works out for ya'll! If not then come baq 2 mi and i'll try to help you even more.
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well how can you trust him if hes snooping through your email and stuff. and if he was snooping, he probably had trust issues to begin with. how old are you? most likely if you are young, a long distance relationship my not work out anyway. yeah you did mess up by sending that guy your pic and stuff... but it was only on the comp. its not like you go calling this guy and all that. he needs to lighten up and remember you love him.
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manda, tell him that he should trust you.if he had really read the conversations, he would have seen that they about your relationship! They werent about dumping him or something. If you truely pour your heart out to your boyfriend, he should understand. Hes supposed to love and trust, yes trust, you, and if he cant do because of some stupid conversation, then its time for you to reconsider the relationship. He should trust you, and if he cant theres a serious problem!
Hope I helped!!
ALissa
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there is no way to get trust back easily. you must gain it back. and for some ppl that takes awhile and others it doesnt...god luck....i no you 2 will make it...:)
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My angel is away and we're on an open- long distance relationship right now. Which means, we are allowed to date other people but we are still emotionally together. There are temptations everywhere, take this from someone who knows, however, you can channel yourself to focus on other things. You make love your boyfriend (as I do love mine,) but remember, if you have feelings for someone else too, be honest to yourself and take the time to figure out everything in your head. If you want your boyfriend to trust you, explain to him the motives behind the conversation you had with the guy that you met online. Tell him how you TRULY feel. Sometimes the truth hurts, and other times it helps.. whichever the direction, be honest.
I hope I helped. Hang in there. If you have any other questions, please feel free to leave me a message and I will help you as best I can.
Another word of advice: Sometimes a stranger is an easier person to talk to, however, make sure you aren't giving away TOO much information that he can hurt you with later on.
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just tell him how you feel. tell him that you were really stressed out, and that you had no intention in ever meeting up with that other guy. try to tell him that you made a mistake, and so does everyone else, but you were not going to cheat on your boyfriend, and you will do whatever it takes to try and make it up to him.
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Trust is lvoe, love is trust, If he doesn't trust you, he doesn't love you, blah blah blah. Time will fix it, or you could move to oregon
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