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internet love..??
I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will?
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FiRst of all... I'm shoRe you don't "love" him, and I'll explain why I think this fuRtheR down. People often mistake "love" foR Lust; which is veRy poweRful at times. I say it's just a quick infatuation. And just because he tells you about his sex life doesn't mean anything -- sex lives neveR seem to be kept hush-hush these days. And it's DEFINITELY NOT uncommon foR an inteRnet guy to staRt talking about sex! Ten houRs isn't *SO* bad; could be woRse. You should talk to him on the phone; foR a llllooonnnngggg time.. mmmmannnnyyyyy times!! If you still like him, then I say go meet him! If you'Re both willing to take on a long distant Relationship, then go foR it! HoweveR, you neveR mentioned youR age; which is kind of scaRy! If he's like 19 and you'Re 13, oR 22 and 15.. I would suggest NOT to botheR with it; move on!! Just use good judgement, and don't do anything that will get youRself in tRouble!! And why do you always fall foR the guys you've neveR met? I think it's because it's easy. FoR one thing.. you could be a shy giRl, and peRhaps you don't talk to many guys.. so meeting them online is a lot easieR foR you.. and it's the attention you cRave and they'll give it to you. And peRhaps you "love" him, because you haven't actually met him, so you'Re unfamilaR with his flaws... he seems peRfect, because you have neveR had the chance to expeRience otheRwise with him. You may know A LOT about him, but you don't know his family, you don't know his fRiends, you don't know what he does eveRyday all day... you don't know him. The computeR is a gReat way to get to know someone, but it completely lacks feelings! I say just take it slowly, one step at a time, and if things weRe "meant to be", they'll be. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!!
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Ok well im not gonna slam you for this because my aunt met this guy on the net and it turns out her wasnt a killer, he was a 1/2 way ok man and they were married and still goin strong! It depends on how old you are whether you can see him or not! After 2 years im sure you know him and if youve been honest with him about everything mostly your age, then it sounds like you could have a good thing goin! Im not sure why you fall for guys youve never met, guess youll have to figure that one out on your own! :*:SaRa:*:
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I don't know I would be really carefull talking to him you never know what kind of person you are talking to in chat a room. He may sound sweet but if you don't know him then how do you know he's telling you the real thing. ALl I am saying is be careful.
~Hope I was of Help~
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well yeh this onez kinda a toughy cuz yur rite..yu may never meet him..and yu have to be careful wit these internet ppl also cuz no matter how much yu think yu kno em, they mite just be putting yu on or not tellin the truth about who they really are...
i think yu shuld try and meet up with him but make sure yu have someone with yu for a while wen meeting up with him!! dont go alone for a while until yu really get to kno him in person and trust him in person and everything!! be safee!!
hope i helped!!
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good luck!!
lOvE aLwAyz, aSh*
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Hello. Take serious precautions with this guy. In reguards to your second part, you probably fall for guys that you haven't met because they're less aware of your flaws, are harder to impress (because they cant be sure who they're talking to) and because they're mysterious. Thank you for your time.
-SilentHelper
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First of all how do you know he's not lieing? Maybe he is. You have never been close to him, you dont know if he is lieing to you or not. What he tells you, is all you know. Trust is a major key in internet relationships. I never actually believed in them, although i tried a couple times. I think if you've known him for that long a person couldn't possible continue lieing for 2 years, he'd get caught up in them somehow. Maybe he's actually telling you the truth, and my dear if he is...GO FOR IT! Don't miss out on this, this may be a perfect guy for you. Just whenever you can talk to your parents and go visit Calgary! Take a family vacation and kinda make a plan to meet up with him.=) See if he's anything like you thought. It'll answer a lot of questions for you. Have you showed him your picture? KEEP IN TOUCH! Rate me?
anna
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Be careful with guys you meet on the net, even if you saw them on a cam. Maybe yall could start talking on the phone, but i'd say DO NOT MEET HIM. No matter what he says it would be a wise decision. Good luck with him and i REALLY hope for you that hes not a 250lbs old bald guy from canada. Good luck with that... lol
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well u could get yourself into a dangerous situation if u met up with him..he could be like 60!! but if you really wanna meet him..the place to do it would be in a populated area (like the movies?) and with a couple of your friends..that way if he tried to do anything to you, you wouldnt be alone..but be careful!! xOx good luck!
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i know how it feels to be in love but babe thats just not safe i mean i met this guy online but we met n person n everythings goin great we are almost goin out but i dont think its the same cuz he lives the next town over soo..babe i wouldnt talk to him anymore mayb u should tell him how u feel..it may hurt for a while but it wont last 4 ever...good luck tell me how it turns out!
x0 MisTy 0x
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Hey,
I know it feels like you are in love but think u dont really know him , you haven't met. Do u think maybe you THINK you are in love cuz he has been sweet talking you?Since he was on the cam for only a few secods how do u know it was him ? What if it was his son or a friend. I know it sounds so stupid when adults say internet relationships are dangerous but they are right. I mean its all over the new teen girl getting raped and killed by strangers online. Just be smart and don't try to meet him or give info like your # or address. Find some sweet guy from your school or some guy you know and have met. Becuase this guy is ttaking over your life and you cant date people if your going crazy over him. To make this short just forget about him cut your connections to him even though its hard ,
Much luck and love,
Mirela
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HOW do u no this guy is real??? could be a preditor!!!! b careful!!!!!!!!!!
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do not talk to him. he could lie his age to make you think he is. maybe a rapist. watch the news.
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yes you go and find a way to meet him.
oh, and dont worry about the knife and/or rope he pulls out, they are just the kinky sex toys he uses ;)
also, when he lunges at you with those, dont worry, hes not going to kill you...thats just his way of saying he loves you! yes!
being with someone over the internet is the stupidest thing everrr!!!!never never never never never do it! YOU HEAR?!?!
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Why don't you call him or something and work out a way to see him face to face. But just be careful that he isn't one of them guys that act nice but actually aren't! Just watch out for yourself!
-Katie
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DUH DUH DUH!!!!! THATS SO FUCKING NOT SMART, YOU GOT YOURSELF A LITTLE ONLINE BF HUH?!... DID HE SEND YOU HIS FULL BODY PIC? HAH! YOU CANT POSSIBLY BE IN LOVE WIF SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER MET BEFORE, ITS IMPOSSIBLE!!.....
LAURYN
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You never met him so i wouldnt say youre in love with him. he could be like 70 years old and u wouldnt know it.
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weLL i believe every1 has at least been in this situation but ive seen the same problem on dr.phil..(lolsz) and this gurl has been talking on the fone wit him for 6 yearsz and writing and sending presents and when she wanted to marry htis guy after her parents and every1 has been tellin her dont believe thisz guy ..it turned out to b a man wit 3 kids married..another guysz address who lives ina car and the place where the guy so called work wasnt even there...so dont believe in it...u can get hurt
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ok. i think u fall 4 them cuz u don't no anything that they have REALLY done. they could have done really bad things and u don't no about it. It could be some 50 year old guy saying he's 17 and u couldn't tell if he was lying. Iternet dating is SO dangerous so my advice is BE CAREFUL!
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well maybe its because they act really nicebut they dont tell you the other stuff. ya know???? internet talking can be really dangerous. so be careful
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