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PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!
ive been with this guy for 8 months and just last month i got a fone call saying that he was cheating on me. when i tol him about this he just said oh babe dont listen to her she just hating. befor all this shit happend he would call me like 9 times a day and now after all this drama he only calls me every 4 days but sometimes if im lucky he'll call me for 2 days straight and then he will stop and go back to the 4 day thing...i love this guy alot but im so confused i just dont know what to do...i need help...PLEASE!!!
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I know what you should do.. move on! It might be huRtful, but it's necessaRy. If you even had to come on heRe and ask this question... you should be able to tell it's oveR. Obviously he doesn't make you happie!! YouR paRtneR is supposed to come by and sweep you off youR feet... doesn't look like he's doing that, now is he?? He obviously doesn't have anything to offeR you, so don't waste youR time!! It's plain to see that this isn't a good Relationship; you can find *MUCH* betteR!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
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hunnie..i think hez sneaking around on yu..i kno it hurtz to hear this..but i believe in tellin ppl the truth, even if it hurtz.
just talk to him about it !! explain to him that yur really confused and ask y he only callz yu every 4 dayz or so?? tell him itz a shame that wen he callz for 2 dayz str8 yu get really happy thinking that he'll call on day #3..and it shuldnt be lyk that!!
sweety, good luck and plz be careful and if yur first instinct sayz hez cheating..chancez are he possibly is!! try and snoop a lil and ask sum of his friendz what hez been upto or ask yur friendz if they kno anything..
worst comez to worst..leave him. cuz yu dont need a guy that only callz yu every 4 dayz anywayz!!!
drop me a line if yu need more help!!
-ashlea*
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well maybe your friend is just jealous and she wants you to break up with him so she can go out with him. but on the other hand, maybe he is cheating on you. you never know. so you should investigate and keep a look out just in case.
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try to catch him in the act. talk to ur friend and ask him/her when/where it happened and investigate. hope i helped you and good luck
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This is a tough situation. But, maybe try talking to him about it and just be like "We've been going out for 8 months and you use to call me all the time, and then when I got that phone call a month a go saying you were cheating on me, you call me every 4 days. What's up with that? I mean, if you're cheating on me, you need to just tell me right now but if you're not cheating on me, then why is it that we only talk every 4 days?" Just say something like that and how you feel and stuff. But, if you still feel like he's cheating on you, maybe try talking to that girl that called you and try to get proof if he is cheating on you or not. Or, you can try calling him randomly one of these days and just surprise him and see what he is doing or whatever. I hope this helps and good luck hun!! Hope everything turns out okay. If you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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