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Help Me Please!
Ok... I have a really serious problem... Ok.... i met this boy a while back in a chat room... and hes only one year older than me... anywayz... we started talkin on the phone ALOT and we kinda started to fall for each other... we dont actually date... because we live in different states and thats just not really what i want. My parents have no idea about this... they would die if they knew that i met a boy on the internet and they would really go crazy if they knew that i talked to him all the time n the phone.. whenever they ask who i am talkin to i have to lie and say a boys name that they know... and its really really sad because i kno that they wouldnt understand my situation and u would be in sooo much trouble if they found out any of it and i think i am just makin it worse by lying continuously. He cant even just call when he wants to talk to me because it says the state he lives in on the caller i.d so i have to sneak to talk to him and everything.. ive asked myself alot of times if it was really worth losing my parents trust for a long distance boy.. but i KNOW that it is worth it because i love him so much. I thought about telling them on my birthday because they cant get really really mad at me on my birthday can they!? But.. the only problem with that is that my birthday is 7 months away and it has just become to much and i dont know if i can take it that much longer... actually i know that i cant take it that much longer... so what do i do!? plz help me ASAP! Thx! XOXO~******~
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i totally understand your situation and anybody's parents would be upset to know that their daughter met a guy on the internet, i know mine would.it sounds like u are swimming threw lies and ur gonna sink fast!((u know its gona show up as long distance and ur bill is gonna be over the top)) it may not sound like the best advice to come up with another lie but the next time u are talking to him and they ask who it is tell them thats its your friends friend that u met over the internet and make sure it is a friend that they know and trust but dont know well enough to ask the friends parents about it. by them knowing that your friend knows them they might be a lil more calm about the whole situation. ((make sure that this is ok with ur friend first of course)). im pretty sure that this will work and if u need more help then just ask me and ill be glad to help
-angelea
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well, first of all, i kno why yur parentz wuld be mad at yu...itz not safe to meet sumone off the internet..so they wuld only get mad bc they care!! yu have to remember that. and also, if yu wanted him to call yu he can push *67 (star 67) before dialing yur phone # and it will come up as private number on yur caller i.d and it wont show the # or anything else...it will just say "private number" and thatz it!! and, i wuldnt risk tellin yur parentz jus yet..talk to this boy about it and let him kno the deal..if he doesnt already kno. let him kno that yur parentz wuld freak and everything..and also, tell yur parents. i kno itz hard but plz tell them cuz wut if yu went to go meet this guy without having them kno and sumthing happenz to yu god forbid..but thingz lyk that happen everyday..i kno yu think it wont happen cuz yu feel lyk yu kno this guy so well but it really culd!! i wuld wait a lil longer to tell yur parentz ... but how old are yu??? get back to me cuz i really wana help yu with this!!
aLwAyz, aShlEa*
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YOU MAY THINK HES ONLY ONE YEAR OLDER THEN YOU, HE COULD BE LIKE SOME WEIRD PSYCHO 50YEAR OLD PERVERT.... EW!!
LAURYN
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