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ex-cheater?
My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater?
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yea i would go with once a cheater always a cheater or once a player always a player...its not that all guys are like that. its just that most are. but there will be a guy for you...you just may have to wait awhile.
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Well, first of all if you love him, you should be able to trust him, do you have any proof or are you just assuming? in your own words you said, "He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore." So why not trust your own advice? And i really dont believe "once a cheater, always a cheater" People change, people grow up, or fall in love, no matter what it is maybe you should talk to him about it! Tell him how you feel..see if you have any reason to worry!
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Hi there Im a guy so i know what hes thinking.Definetly once a cheater always a cheater .He must have said that to all of his ex girlfriends and look what happen.Im not saying u should break up im saying be strong cause he might just tell u hes cheating on you.
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YOU CANT AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT HES STILL ONCE THE PLAYER HE WAS&CLAIMS HE IS NO MORE, BUT YOU CANT ALSO PUT YOUR FEELINGS OUT TO SOMEONE WHO USED TO BE A FORMER OR STILL MAY BE. SIMPLY ASK HIM....... "IF YOU ARE CHEATING LET ME KNOW, I DONT WANT TO PUT MYSELF OUT FOR YOU IF YOU ARE... BE TOTALLY HONEST WIF ME..."&DONT TAKE IT THE WRONG WAY&FLIP OUT NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU MAY WANT TO.... KEEP YOUR COOL, IF HE IS&YOU STAY COOL CALM&COLLECTED IT MAY MAKE HIM CHANGE HIS WAYS, YOU NEVER KNOW....
LAURYN
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no that is not always true. people can change. has he ever done anything to you? maybe you should just trust him.
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the saying can be true at times. but it is rare for someone who used to cheat to change over night. i used to be a cheater, but then i found my curent boyfriend and i changed my ways for good. so there is the possibility that he has changed. next time when you see him, just ask him for an honest answer and look him in the eyes and be like "Honestly, Are you still cheating?, i just want to know the truth" and thats how i always got the truth out of my exboyfriends who were cheating...
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well it can be true, but what are the things that make u think hes cheating? other then he used to cheat? and why dont u ask him
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Higher a Private eye to spy on him and follow him everywhere. It's the only way.
Oh, except for thought!
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