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this girl at my school like sleeps around and does drugs and drinks and stuff...and not alot of ppl like her...but she wants to go out with my best guy friend and all shes gonna do is sleep with him and get him into drugs and everybody knows and doesnt want it to happen and i dont know how to tell him that he shouldnt go out with her...
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Tell him "Man, your my best friend and I am tellin yah this cuz were buds and i dont want something to ruin your life. my opinion about ____ is not so great, i mean its your choice and your life but you know she does drugs and drinks and if you go out with her she could get you in to them and i dont want that to happen. Its only my opinion but think about it."
Just let him know you really care about what could happen to him. Good Luck i hope all goes well!
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TELL HIM THAT YOUR ONLY LOOKING OUT FOR HIM. DONT TELL HIM NOT TO DO IT, THAT WILL JUST MAKE HIM WANT TO GO WIF HER MORE... LET HIM KNOW YOU JUST WANT HIM TO BE CARFUL&YOU WOULDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO IF HE GOT INTO "BEING BAD"
LAURYN
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You can only tell your friend what you know not what other people tell you. If you are certain and know all the facts about this girl, then tell him. When you do tell him, be nothing but honest with him. He will appreciate it when you do. :)
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theres no other way but to be upfront and honest with him!! let him know your concerned and just say "listen, im not saying this to get you mad, only bc i care.." and tell him how youre feeling and that you know for a fact that this girl is nothing but trouble!!
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good luck!!
*ash*
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If he is a good friend, he'll listen to you. Just try to make him listen and tell him the FACTS that you know.
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you can not control your friend. you can only tell him what you think is best for him and let him know that you care about him. just tell him, you know this girl is a bad influence, and i dont want you to get suckered into anything that you know is not good for you, like drugs. and tell him you know this girl has a rep fro sleeping around, suppose she gives you an std or soemthing. just tells him things to make him see that this girl is bad news. but if he doesnt listen, then atleast you try. it sucks how some people can be so stubborn, and dont learn until they experience things themselves.
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sit him d0wn and say..iF i mean anything t0 y0u u 0nt g0 0ut with her..it is f0r y0ur 0wn g00d..she is n0thing but tr0uble and i d0nt want her t0 get y0u int0 ne tr0uble..iF he D0esnT unDeRStanD say i aM 0nly d0ing this becasue i care ab0ut y0u..
0r just w0rk at it l0l..h0pe i helped a little..
=) MaNdiE x0o
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