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I told my bf that i had a crush on his bff and he was upset but didn't want to get real mad even though he was and all he did was try to make me happy and do wut was the best for me and we r still togeather but i feel really bad because he's being so understanding and im being a real BITCH for me feeling but it's really hard to not like his bff because he is the only one that has ever reallr understood me and i can talk to him 4ever and not ever get tired but now my bf is all upset and he still wants to be with me but i dont want to hurt him so i dunno if i should just brake up with him or stay in the relationship and hope that everything ends 4 the best.oh and im 14 and me and my bf have been going out 4 4 months and his bff has been my friend 4 2years.PLZ HELP
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This happened to my best friend before. You know, if you leave him for his best friend, he's going to be upset, obviously becuase you say he wants you to stay. But if you do leave him...how are you sure his best friend likes you as more than a friend? Be careful. The feelings you may have for his best friend might just be there because you can talk to him a lot and because he understands you, but thats what friends are for. Be careful, and think about how you feel about your boyfriend. Who might know, that these feelings for his best friend might not be that strong, or won't be there in a week or so. I think that you should hang on to your boyfriend for a little longer. Because he was, and still is I think understanding about it. That shows that he cares about you a lot!
I hope I helped, and got luck with everything...hang in there. =].
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maybe it means that his bff is ur bff... stay with him he seems like a good friend/bf and u dont wanna loose that
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I would take a break to get your feelings straightened out.You might end up really liking his best friend or you might just figure that you really feel comfortable around him and go back to your boyfriend.It seem likes your confused with everything so i would take a break for a while and spend some time with your friend to find out if there's more between you or if there's not explain that to your boyfriend.It could just be a crush your going through.Hope it works out.
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i know how u feel..but i dont think its fair for ur bf to go threw all the pain if u like his bff so mayb u should ask ur bf if u could ask his bff out...its only fair well good luck n i hope i helped!
tell me how it turns out!
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