my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?
LovinLife411 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:44 pm: if you want to break up with him call and leave a message saying that you want to come over and talk to him and if he doesn't answer then go over and ask to talk to him [ LovinLife411's advice column | Ask LovinLife411 A Question ]
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:28 pm: Try and get in touch with him and if you can talk in person but if he for sure wont meet you then your gonna have to leave a message if you cant even get a hold of him on his phone [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
JennaRESPECTS answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 12:20 pm: I think if you wan to dump him,call him,don't leave a message,but talk to him directly on the phone.Tell him that you want to dump him but ease him down slowly.
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SwTeStBayBGurL15 answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:04 pm: You should never break up with a guy on the phone..Try to get him in person, school is starting soon and that should be a perfect oportunity..If it comes down to it, and you don't have any other way..Have one of your friends act like their friends with him and tell him for you..Please rate me!:) [ SwTeStBayBGurL15's advice column | Ask SwTeStBayBGurL15 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday August 23 2004, 2:02 pm: No.. foRget about him. It's as good as oveR... he obviously wants it that way too... if he didn't.. he'd be tRying to woRk things out with you. Nothing needs to be said... it's done with. Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
lilangelshan08 answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:32 pm: hey if he goes on ignoring you then just start looking for someone knew and if he asks you why you are looking be like i tried to tell you it's over but you didn't want to talk to me. hope i helped
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xlostangelx answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:10 am: well...if yur b/f is ignoring yu cuz he knoz yu wana break up wit him .. then that jus meanz he really carez for yu alot and doesnt want yu to leave him ..and also, if yu still wana break up wit him .. go to his house or somewhere yu kno he'll be at .. if yu still cant get in contact wit him ...then write him an email tellin him yu really wana talk..or leave a message saying yu really wana talk(if itz the family answring machine..dont do it ..but if he has his own line or cell phone..do it) ..and if that doesnt work write him a letter in the mail and it will get to him in 1-2 dayz..
AND..if hez ignornin yu for 3 weekz..can yu still considerin yu guyz together? maybe hes the one trying to break up wit YOU so hez ignoring yu so yu get the hint...
hope this helped..good luck..email me and tell me how it went...
StRwBeRrYShOrTy answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:30 pm: hMm, well you 2 have got 2 tlka eventually, i've been in situatyions similar 2 yours, i dont understand y guys think ignoring the situation makes things go away. but ne ways, i think you should clal him dn jus say how your gettin the feeling that its ont exactly working and you hope you 2 can b friends, hope evrything works out-plz rate =) [ StRwBeRrYShOrTy's advice column | Ask StRwBeRrYShOrTy A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:28 pm: no, dont leave a message. just phone him asking him to call you as soon as he can. and if he doesnt call you back hit *67 then dial the number and because this will block your call hopefully he'll answer. and if it wont accept your blocked call then i am sure you'll see hi around one day and when you do tell him in person. or another idea is to call and leave a message and asking him if he wants to go out somewhere with you, where ever you may want to choose, and then talk to him then. good luck. if ya need anything else leave one in my inbox or IM me one day. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Jennifer790 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:12 pm: wow, if he is that scared to be dumped then thats pathetic... dump his sorry ass... 3 weeks come on... block the call next time u call *67 and if that doesnt work then yes leave a message [ Jennifer790's advice column | Ask Jennifer790 A Question ]
snowwalker69 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:09 pm: Do it in person. There is nothing worse then breaking up with someone over the phone, or sending a message ... catch up with him one day and do it in person. [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:08 pm: Yea do that, or right him a letter or email him.
SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:00 pm: Wow this guy sounds like a jerk! Maybe he is just really busy and hasn't gotten a chance to call your or w/e. Don't leave a message breaking up, talk to him in person. [ SwEeTeStSiN7's advice column | Ask SwEeTeStSiN7 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:23 pm: its really pathetic that this guy wont see you cuz he knows your gonna dump him. i know its really shallow to call someone up and dump them, especially by leaving a message, but the kid is giving you no choice. just call him and tell him sorry but it over. good luck! i hope he doesnt start stalking you and shit. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Lena answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:10 pm: nooo dont do that! call him! or invite him to the movies or to hang out and when ya'll are saying goodbye break up wit him! =/ [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
emoist__ren answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:04 pm: try leaving him a message that says to call him ASAP.
SwEeTii14 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:54 pm: thats wicked immature of him to do something like that..but i think u should just do what ur heart tells u..good luck babe i hope i helped!!
HollyAnn2282 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:48 pm: if he has a cell phone use that and leave the message, or just email him or talk to him online, if he still doesnt respond march to his house and dump him right there! Good luck
-holly-
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Way2InLuvWitU answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:46 pm: ok well first of all, how do u have a relationship if u havent talked to him in three weeks? and if he is ignoring you then YES leave a message and break up with him he is being an idiot! and very childish.. dump his ass gf! lol
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*ashlee* answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:43 pm: yea because u cant just put everything on hold cause hes avoiding the breakup..leaving a message is lame, but its his own fault that u cant get ahold of him. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
cutie_babee answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:40 pm: Um well I say your better off leaving him a message letting him down easily and tell him why and all that cuz also the fact of not seeing him for a while kinda makes you wanna break up with him even more so do the right thing and let him down gently
XxRockon answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:40 pm: no that wouldnt be a good idea i don't think. You should call him and leave message saying that you want to talk about him something. If he doesn't return your message try to catch him online or something..and tell him that you need to talk and to stop avoiding you. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:29 pm: I think you should call him and leave a message saying that you wanna meet him somewhere at a certain time. Breaking up with someone over the phone isn't the best place to break up with that person. When you meet him, that's when you should break up with him. Sorry if this isn't what you are looking for in an answer but I never broke up with someone so I'm not that experienced lol. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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