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I LoVe My CoDy LaNe ThOmPsOn*Hi, my name is Kelly. The blonde in the picture is me and the other one is my BEST friend Caitlin. That's a really old picture so don't pay much attention to it!;)If you need relationship advice..I'm good with that.. I can also answer any other questions.. Let me know if you ever need anything
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my friend has this boy friend who is cutting himself and inking it (pouring ink all over the cut) because he wants to die and he is in a mental hospital right now and my friend likes him alot because he cares about her more than her step dad cause he beats and rapes her. well my friend said if this guy dies she is going to kill herself and ive tried talking to her but she wont listen and she still wants to kill herself if her bf dies. plz help
Well chances are the girl won't really kill herself i mean i dont think she'll go into that drastic of measures because of some guy yeah she might love him but i think she'll just cry about it but girl you need to get her to a counceler or something i mean you need to do something to help the girl. Tell someone no matter how bad it hurts her! she'll realize you helped her out in the end. I mean would you rather get help for her now or see her die? i think you know the answer to that. so please tell someone, she needs serious help, from an adult! hope i helped you some and i really hope everyhing works out. Love ya!
im 15 and the other day i was with my bf
and we were about to start kissing when i farted
and it was loud i got embarrassed and walked away
and he might have told someone because the next day boys were laughing and joking its quite embarrissing is there anything i can do about it.
Well everyone farts..It's a part of life, i'm sure he knows that..he does it too!..I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and if somethin like that happens he just laughs..It's not a big deal everyone does it and he really shouldnt be spreading anything about that bc that would be really rude..So maybe those guys were laughin at somethin else..If he cares about u he'll just let it slide..It was just one tiny little incident..i wouldn't stress over it..Def. talk to him tho and if it ever happens again be like opps..my bad, don't walk away tho..Hope that i helped at least some..Love ya!!:)
There's this kid at my school...we are both freshman and at this oriantation, we were together a lot...( in the same groupd )Well, now i see him one to two times a day, and i dont have much time inbetween classes b.c they have a strict schedule...=(...Anyways, i really like this kid...I had the dream that you have, like when you are crushing...well I saw him today...and i literally stopped breathing...I`m trying to get his screen name and im hoping i can talk to him sometime...but my question is...What can i do to get him to notice me? Like for a minitur betweet classes or a minute after school, or online even...We both play soccer so we can talk about that but what else...? Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this...! =)
Well, he'll notice you a lot more if you get his sn and stuff..really stop being sweet and helpin him if he ever looks upset or needs someone to talk to..Tell him how u feel about him and that should help big time..I don't have that great advice on that subject but i sure hope i helped ya some babe..Love ya:)
hi im anonmys so well be and my bf had been goin out for two months then he dumped me out of the blue.for the next 2 weeks i woukd break down be really depressed and cry alot.so i decided to call him just to tell him i still love him and he said "i dont know why i broke up with you will you go out with me" and i said yes!but he lives 2 hours away,i still see him and i call everyday but i am starting to like my neighbor and i dont know what to do,my neighbor has also been hitting on me and im so confused so can u help.but i really love my boyfriend so um thanx
Well hun my best advice is to follow your heart and do whatever it tells you to do..Yeah, it might be hard with your boyfriend living so far away but if you really love someone you don't want to ruin what you have with that special someone for just some random guy..I mean, trust me..Ur neighbor thing is prolly just a little crust..Follow your heart but my advice is to stay with the one you love..I've been in that position and i stayed with my boyfriend and realized it was just a silly crush with the other boy:)
im 14 and my penis is not that big only 3 inches long and im worried about it does it matter to girls?
Some girls worry about it..Some girls dont..Find a girl that likes you for who you are and not what size your penis is..It'll get bigger in time..Don't stress over it!
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I am a freshman in high school...There is this guy in school that I like... his name is nick and well some people say that he likes me tOo. We are talkin all the time and we are each others hoes... yea not really funny but its an inside joke... AnyWayZ. I like him and so does my friend paige but that really doesnt matter... but this girl breanna is like threatin'n me like if I go out with him she is gunna beat me up and I dont know what to do... we are always together and we both told her to leave us alone and she wont... I dont wanna get her mad at me and make her wanna beat my butt... but I like him.... what should I do!
thanks*
Erika
Go out with him..If she really wants to beat you up that bad for no reason let her do it..Fight back if you want too..A lot of times girls like that are just all talk..Do whatever makes you happy and follow your heart:)
My bf and i are 15 and he is a bit insecure
about his penis size what is the average size
of a 15 yr old? he's almost 6 inches long.
I'm not really sure the exact size..I mean it really depends on how big the boy is and stuff..I mean i think you should just tell him it's average..I mean it's not to small and not to big..Just tell him it's the perfect size and try things to make it so he's not insecure..I hope i helped you at least some..Anytime you need anything im here..Just let me know..Love ya:)
If your belly button peircing is infected and bleeding because you messed with it too much as in taking it out and putting it back too much, can you put peroxide on it?! If not what can I put on it?! Thanks
yeah..i did that, you can put proxide on it and it should help but it'll prolly sting..You just need to keep cleaning it..Eventually it should get better, i hope:)
I'm sbout 5'2" and weigh about 90lbs (I have a REALLY fast metabolism). Is it possible to gain any weight on my arms without getting any on my stomach? That's where all my gained weight goes. Could I be able to beef up my arms a bit?
well, i've never been able to do anything to get my arms bigger..why dont u try lifting weights or somethin like that, i know that sounds like a guy thing, but hey..it could help..you never know, and if the fat wants to go to ur stomach there is nothing u can do about it..exercise and eat right..that's about it..please rate me!!
ok, well my momz b/f has HEPATITIS C that he got from another girl while cheating on my mom ..they have gone thru manny problemz in their relationship and he hurt he wayy too many timez...yet she still stayz with him .. and i cant get thru to her no matter wut..
but my real question is this : 3 days ago my mom told me that were moving into his house on friday .. she said she'd help me buy a car and give me 50 bucks a week for no reason and drive me to my old school everyday and all ill have to to do is take a train back home .. shez trying to bribe me to move in ...BUT the only thing holdin me back is that he has hepatitic c and i dont want my mom getting it and i feel lyk if i move in with them, then ill be supporting her chances of getting HEPATITIS C .. and everynite wen i lay in bed ill have to worry about wut they are doing in their bedroom and if shes having unprotected sex with him and if she'll get HEP C at any moment now ... i mean, i really love her and ive already tried talking to her about this but her mind is made up!! plz tell me if i shuld go and if i am overreating here or wut ..... but itz HEPTITIS C !!!!:( plz help me
Keep talking to her..Cry if you have to..get it thru her head that you don't want anything happening to her..Tell her you don't think it's a good idea..You have to keep voiceing your opinion..Sooner or later she will listen..Please rate me!!
Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil
Well, i don't like being around my mom that much..I mean, your mom loves you and she's always going to even if u dont pay attention..But when you need her, she'll be there if you have no one else..It's not weird, i know plenty of people that don't like to hang out with their moms..it's perfectly normal..Please rate me!!
im asking this question for my friend ... a few months ago she wanted to be homeschooled ... then she found this really nice boarding school that she liked A LOT! so she requested information and things of that sort on teh internet and things like that...well she was sure her mom was going 2 say yes...well her mom said that it was A LOT of money 2 pay especially shes one of four kids...four girls...so it kinda sux for her! i feel really badly for her and she asked me 2 write this...she cant go to the boarding school or homeschooled and she doesn't want to go 2 public/private school because in her area...they judge you at pub. and private school...
PLEASE HELP THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER AND ME!!
AND AGAIN PLEASE HELP!!
Well, in my town there is these little schools that are there for when you get kicked out of our schools..they aren't private..only a few kids go there..But if she wanted to play any sports or do PE you can still do it in public schools..Have her look around for that..Please rate me!!
(yes i just asked the q about the x bf..) anyways.. ohh my boyfriend ryan..i love him so much. i know hes ready for sex, and i am too. we tried it once..fully no clothes but he wasnt hard enough at the time so he couldnt put it in me. then tonight, i ended up giving him head..(FOR THE FIRST TIME) and i must have given him head for a minuet..then he pushed me away cuz he cumed! im like..wow? am i that good..? idk! anyways..like i REALLY want to have sex with him, just because i know we're both ready..but it always takes us SO long to get to that point. we're the kind of couple that kisses and makes out ALOT..and we ususally do forever before we do anything. like we'll be in his room and make out on his bed for an hour before we do anything. how do i speed things up ah bit?
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give him head first and then start having sex..2 orgasims is better than one..if your both ready you just need to do it..try playin with his dick and maybe it'll make it hard so he can stick it in you..Please rate me!!
Ok, I have a problem lol. School is starting in a few days and I have acne. It's not that bad but it is in a way lol. What are some ways to remove or cover the acne on my face? I hear that toothpaste and nail polish remover works but could you explain to me how to use it on my face with good details? I'll rate you because I know the answers will be long. Thanks
well, my stepsister uses toothpaste and she told me that you can just dab it on the spots that you have acne..I've never used it, but my sister wouldn't lie..She said you could also use a tooth brush with toothpaste on it and scrub the spots..Please rate me!!
Well...It started out as:
This guy IMed my friend and she added him to a chat we were having.Well after my friend left we started talking and he gave me his other screen names. We talked/talk everyday. Well, we got really close...and now I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him.
Is it wrong that I might like him as more than a friend if I've never met him face to face? I don't know if I should...because...well,I'm almost positive he is NOT a paedophile...but one can never be to sure. I don't want to get hurt like that, but I just want to know if its wrong to have a little crush on him.
No..you can have a crush on whoever you want hunn..Don't worry about it..I think you just ask him and if he tells you he's not, trust him..Maybe even ask ur friend more about the guy..Please rate me!!:)
alright..well ive been with ryan for now 6 months..and still my ex-bf brian is still in love with me (we went out for 9 months) he doesnt act it..or be an ass to me or anything, its just i know he still loves and cares about me. it kinda gets annoying that he still does..how can i ask him to just move on?
Just tell him that you've moved on..But be nice about it..If he really cares about you he should want you to be happy!!..Please rate me!!:)
hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!
No..Sex is one of those thing you can't control..When the time is right is when sex happens..there is no stopping it..the emotions can't be controled..Don't put yourself down by thinking your a slut and don't let anyone else put you down!..If your going to tell anyone tell only your best friend and make sure he can keep a secret..It'll all turn out okay and i'm sure that your relationship will last..Please rate me!!
Hey everyone...I need some advice....
Well I met this guy almost 8 months ago. We started talkin and we went out for about a week but things were not workin out because he lived like 30 mins away and neither one of us could drive. So we broke up and didnt talk for a while then we started talkin again and we got really close. He told me he didnt want to go out right then cause we wouldnt ever see each other. He wanted to wait until he could drive. Well he will be able to drive on tuesday. We have had a really hard time the past month or so. He told me he loved me and the whole nine yards. But now he is sayin that he doesnt really want a relationship. And some ppl told me that he said he hated me and never liked me and i asked him and he said he didnt say that. I cant stop thinkin bout him and i really love him a lot. How do I get him to realize that. I have already talked to him and tried to explain. All i want is just to be with him....Please help
Sorry it was so long
I think you should give him a chance..You can't always believe things people tell you..Even if it's someone you trust bc 9 times outta 10 they heard it from someone else who likes the guy and doesnt want you with him..So you just need to talk to him the first chance u get in person and see if he likes you..you can tell by the look in a guys eyes if their in love with you..Give it a second shot!..Please rate me!!
My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(
well, if he makes you happy then you need to give it another try..Personally, i believe in second chances..Maybe he had family problems or something..I've given my boyfriend more than 2 chances and we've been dating for a year now and everything is working out perfectly..I think you should def. give it another try, if he cares about you as much as he says he does..he'll try very hard to make it work out..Please rate me!!:)
ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?
well, i think you should talk to your parents about getting a new pair..Or maybe even contacts..Tell them that you were getting made fun of..Let them know what people said about you..Tell them your like the only one with glasses so that you can get contacts..Please rate me!!:)