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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!
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NO your not a slut just because you had sex and stuff does't make you a slut at all.
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You are definaltley not a slut, they are waaaaaay more people who have sex and they are like 13 and shit, it's normal for people to have sex. I mean seriously, it if wasn't for sex, you wouldn't be born.
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I guess that's just a matter of opinion .. some people would say you're a slut, some would say you aren't.
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no ur not a slut. i mean you guys were technically dateing at the time and it's not like it was with more than ONE guy. so don't worry about it ur fine:-D have fun~!
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I don't think your a slut at all hun. Sex happens when it's the right time. I guess it was the right time for you and you do like him. No big deal, your not a slut. No worries.
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No..Sex is one of those thing you can't control..When the time is right is when sex happens..there is no stopping it..the emotions can't be controled..Don't put yourself down by thinking your a slut and don't let anyone else put you down!..If your going to tell anyone tell only your best friend and make sure he can keep a secret..It'll all turn out okay and i'm sure that your relationship will last..Please rate me!!
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I dont think your a slut, but if word gets out the "popular crowd" at your school will. im wndering why you have 16/f/single up there if you have a bf now. having sex before your first date is a bit fast but its really up to you.
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Haha.. that's fucking awesome!! You'Re totally NOT a slut, but who caRes WHAT eveRyone else thinks.. scRew 'em!! As long as you'Re educated on sex, know the Risks involved, and have enough sense to use pRotection, just do youR thing and have fun!! Take caRe!! hope I helped?? =D
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That was kinda fast, but as long as you're okay with it it's not so bad. You're not a slut unless you make a habit of this behavior.
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Ok here it goes from my point of view!First of all 16? and not in a relationship? Im not gonna judge you but since you asked, im not your mom or anything but its not something i would have done. How long do you think youll stay with this guy? Did it mean anything?to him? Well im glad your on the pill...thats prob a good thing! Its your life....:*:SaRa:*:
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umm WHOA!!!i didnt expect to see that lol technically your not a slut cuz hes ur b/f but u juss met each other n had sex???thats crazzi u bette be lucky u r on a pill gurl
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Thank god you used a condom as well as birth control. Well, if you like him then your not a slut. Sex is a natural thing, and it should never be seen as a bad thing. UYnless it was rape or something. but anyways, your not a slut, you did what you wanted to do.
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well first of all i think that was very quick to be havin sex did u even kno the guy???? sorry thats all i can say for that 1
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Since you asked for opinions, I will tell you honestly and not sugar coat it. I don't think you're a slut.If you were doing this all the time with lots of different guys you would be a slut. I think that you are fast and easy. If you are comfortable with that, with that sort of relationship, and with yourself, then I guess there is nothing wrong with it. I think that you should know someone better before any sort of sexual thing (fingering or sex).
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well i think it was sorta bad thing but ur not necessarily a slut, but its a little crazy that u did this like while ur freind is downstairs making out with her boyfriend... it was awfully fast to move, and doesnt leave much more the relationship between u and this guy... but if u had fun and he had fun and u two still like eachother then it cant be that bad of a thing right? oh well its just more how u feel about it... hope ur alright :)
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well your not a slut for one thing, but you got to think of something you went and had sex the first day you guys found out you liked each other you got to wonder since you went and said you liked him first that he might also just say he liked you too just to go and have sex with you im not sure but it sounded like he went and rushed things and also that he just wanted sex at first im not sure if he truely loves you or somethin but ya got to think about it. thats my advice
~Dom
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Nope, it doesn't mean that you are a slut. You're going out with him and you can do whatever you want with him. You are very smart for using protection lol. Just don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable of doing. Hope I helped and good luck with your relationship :)
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I don't think you should care what anyone thinks of you, since its a personal thing what you had with that guy. As long as you thought it wasn't wrong and you don't regret it at all, then in your head your not a slut. If anyone else thinks you are, bullshit for them. In the end, its all about how you see yourself and that you are confident that you don't care if anyone else thought it was wrong. There is no 'am I a slut?', because no one has the right to tell you if you are or you aren't, because thats what THEY think, its their opinion.
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What you do is your own decision and unless you think what you did was wrong or you see yourself as being slutty for it then you're not. If you go around telling everyone it doesn't make you a slut but well, people are gay and will say stuff, but what you did doesn't make you a slut unless it's an everyday occurance. good luck with your new boyfriend! =)
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i think you are goin a lil tooo fast!!!! try slowin it down a lil!!!
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Juss becuz u have sex wid a guy duznt make u a slut i mean if u go around sleepin wid madd guyz then yea but 1 thaz ok and if u felt comfortable enough to then it was fine to do i can see u enjoyed it and will prolly wanna do it again but theres nuttin wrong wid it!! hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*
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NOOOOO..ur not a slut..but u could have used beter judgement!the first night ..at least get to kno the dude!
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