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What am I suppose to do?


Question Posted Sunday August 22 2004, 8:11 pm

Hey everyone...I need some advice....

Well I met this guy almost 8 months ago. We started talkin and we went out for about a week but things were not workin out because he lived like 30 mins away and neither one of us could drive. So we broke up and didnt talk for a while then we started talkin again and we got really close. He told me he didnt want to go out right then cause we wouldnt ever see each other. He wanted to wait until he could drive. Well he will be able to drive on tuesday. We have had a really hard time the past month or so. He told me he loved me and the whole nine yards. But now he is sayin that he doesnt really want a relationship. And some ppl told me that he said he hated me and never liked me and i asked him and he said he didnt say that. I cant stop thinkin bout him and i really love him a lot. How do I get him to realize that. I have already talked to him and tried to explain. All i want is just to be with him....Please help

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liLpiMpRinCeZz answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:35 am:
tell him when he is ready give you a call and you guys can talk it over....hoped i helped



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LiLbabiGurlx3 answered Monday August 23 2004, 7:56 pm:
well tell him that when hes ready to give you a call, and tell him AGAIN that you like him and u wanna be with him. and till then be friends and stuff, .. idk theres not much u can do really..
hope i helped :-/.. if you have any more questions feel free to ask!

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SwTeStBayBGurL15 answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:35 pm:
I think you should give him a chance..You can't always believe things people tell you..Even if it's someone you trust bc 9 times outta 10 they heard it from someone else who likes the guy and doesnt want you with him..So you just need to talk to him the first chance u get in person and see if he likes you..you can tell by the look in a guys eyes if their in love with you..Give it a second shot!..Please rate me!!

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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:01 am:
If talking to him didn't help, maybe you should try writing him a letter. If he doesn't want to have a relationship with you, the best thing for you to do is move on. I know it will be hard, but it's better than wasting your time on someone who doesn't care.

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xxoBriannax answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:12 pm:
Tell him that if he doesn't love you, then to stop telling you that. Tell him that you're really confused about what your hearing and you want the truth. Also, tell him that you really love him. But, remember, you can't make someone like you!! Good luck.








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LilMia811 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:44 pm:
this guy probably suddenly doesnt want a relationship because hes got a new car and probably thinks hes hot shit and want to go picking up girls with his buddies. but i could eb wrong. you should talk to him ask him if he loves you and now he finally has the opportunity to see you then why doesnt he want to be with you?

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Mandee answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:37 pm:
One of the hardest things is to try and make someone like you when they don't. It's not something you can force, and it takes a lot of patience and time. You really need to be dedicated to it. And so does he. But it doesn't seem like he is interested in doing that. He's confusing you right now and you don't need that. It's not your fault sweetie, I think he just has some issues of his own to deal with. You could tell him that he needs to take time as much as he needs and he has to decide if he wants a relationship with you or not. Because he can't be doing this on and off like that. Changing his mind all of the time really makes it hard on your part. This way he'll know where you stand. I think the only thing you can do is give him time to figure it out, he probably is lost right now. But whatever happens good luck! Oh, also you'll want a guy who will be as dedicated as you are to having a long lasting relationship, really think about what he's like and if he is right for you. I'm not saying he isn't just be careful not to get your heart broken! Love Always, Mandee

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rosebud_01 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:36 pm:
Tell him to stop sending you mixed messages and also tell him how you feel about him.

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