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hey i'm ren. i am sixteen and from indiana. i'm about to start my junior year at bloomington south. after high school i would *love* to go to Indiana University, or Ball State to study nursing, or something. Not too sure, anymoo. i love giving advice, so if you wanna know something, just ask! i'll answer anything!
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my mom recently found out ive been cutting and now she questions me about it all the time and i just want her to leave me alone along with anyone else who questions cuts on my wrists or me wearing a wristband over them. what should i do??? please help!! (link)
tell her to leave you alone, tell her that it's bothering you even more that she's constantly asking you.

i had this problem. now my mom just makes comments like, "i can't trust you with ANYTHING sharp." or "yeah lauren has a bunch of scars."

ren


i can remember the title to this one song. but i know liek all the words n stuff. but it goes like this...love me love me say that you love me, need me need me, say that you need me, so i creid and i begged for you, love me love me, saythat you love me, fool me fool me go on and fool me, i cant care bout anything but you..." WHAT IS THAT SONG! ill rate really well!!! (link)
the cardigans, love fool. i have the cd.


hey..how healthy is chili to eat if yur on a diet?? thnx!! (link)
chili can be healthy, beans are a veggie. noodles, eh. pasta isn't the healthiest, meat, is fine.

depends on what is in it.

laureDn


do you wanna tie me to a bed & have ur way with me? (link)
well duh, did you really need to ask me that?

come on, be serious. of course i do, you-know-who.



hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx (link)
i truly think you've messed up your life. but then again, we don't know if you willingly had sex, or were raped, or what the conditions were. then again, this isn't our business, that wasn't the question. you're question was what do they do in a c section. well, seeing as i'm an asipring labor and delivery nurse, they take you to an operating room, then they first numb you, good. then they cut your stomach open and take the babies out one at a time. you'll most likely have a scar on your stomach, but, you can't feel pain when they're taking the babies out, just pressure. i'd say c section is less painful, but in most cases you have a vaginal birth. twin usually are c sections.
but hun, if you really are pregnant, with twins, and thirteen, please take a good look at your life, and take good care of those babies. you're only thirteen, and you're just a baby. it's OK to stay a virgin, no one will pressure you into something you don't want to do. i'm sixteen and am still a virgin, theres nothing wrong with it. i have full intent to wait until i'm married to have sex. just.. take care of yourself.

hope i helped,
ren


my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him? (link)
try leaving him a message that says to call him ASAP.

doesn't work? try writing a letter. no response?

try writing an email.

or just tell his parents.. sad, but hey.

ren


whats a wigger? (link)
a white person who dresses, acts, talks, and wants to be black. argh.


ren


for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate! (link)
confront the guys who say this about you. tell them that it's really making you upset and that you're not a whore.

the defintion of whore is someone who has sex with several different guys.

if you don't do that, you're not a whore.

ren


I need to look good for my new school which starts tomorrow! I need help on the following things:

-I have a little acne! Is there anything to remove them before school?

-I have hair on my arms/legs! Are there any home remedies to lighten them coz i cant go to the store?

-A new hairdo! I have long brown hair, and it's not layered. I have never dyed/frosted it, and I want to have nice hair without putting harsh chemicals to my hair.
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acne // put some rubbing alchol on toilet paper, or a paper towel, and rub it ALL OVER your face. it may stink really bad, but it will dry out the pimples. this should start working soon.

leg hair // shave your legs

arm hair // um, well. either shave your arms, lots of girls and guys do that, or just live with it. i dunno.

hair do // try getting a shoulder length choppy look. like maggie gyllenhal in casa de los babies. look it up on yahoo for pictures!

hope i helped,
ren


Who here has a friend (including family member) who has had depression?
This includes the full spectrum of things such as: aenorexia, bulemia, traumatic abuse disorder, manic depression (bipolar).
I believe it is important to educate youth about this stuff because more than 25 percent of people will be disabled for some time of their life with depression!
Thanx! (link)
I'm sixteen, and I am manic depressive. Is that all you wanted to know?


Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil (link)
well. teenagers having mom problems isn't abnormal. i'm sixteen and last year, during school was the worst year for my mom and my relationship. everything either of us said got turned around and flipped upside down, i mean. we got into a fight about everything. i could say, "how was your day," and she's snap at me and it'd turn into a giant fiasco. not everyone likes being around their mom. and if they don't it's a faze. you'll soon start to appriciate your mom. don't worry. it will happen in time. you'll realize how much she does for you. i finally did, now we have a great relationship.

hope i helped,
ren


What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'? (link)
69 means, when the guy eats the girl while the girl gives the guy a blow job. to be wet means to be sexually aroused, and well, you're wet in your girly regions.

hope i helped,
ren




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