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when i was really little, like 4 or so, my babysitters son sat me on his lap and showed me his thing. he told me to touch it and when white stuff started to come out he wanted me to clean it. then he told me to leave his room. well me being young i did what he told me. i didnt kno it was wrong. then i told my mom and she was like dont say anything to anyone. and she didnt do anything about it! i am now gonna turn 14 in october and it has been bugging me since then. it hurts that my mom let me stay there till i was 9! nuthing else ever happened but i mean still. wut could i do to take my mind off of it? i am really happy now and stuff but when i stop and think it just pops in my head and thats the only thing that really stands out in my memoery. i remember it like it was yesterday.
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ok, talk to a school counsiler if you don't have money for a therapist, or a if your the religous type, like a paster or something. see i'm not that religous so i don't know if like theres someone you can go to at a church, but if you are, look into that.
you can also try self hypnosis. heres a site i think can help with that
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it can sometimes block out memories and stuff. good luck to you and i'm sorry it happened to you.
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talk to ur skool counselor!!
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i think yu shuld definately talk to yur mom again about it and tell her that itz really really bothering yu and affecting yu alot. let her kno that yu cant just let sumthing lyk that go cuz itz not something that just happenz everyday to ppl!! yu can also talk to yur school counsler about it and ask her opinions and get her help. or you could even try to talk to the kidz parentz that did this to yu just to let them kno and maybe let them take care of it..if thatz not possible of doing, then maybe yu shuld tell a friendz parent about it or another adult and see wut they think...but dont let this haunt yu and dont just push it aside cuz itz not yur fault and yu need to let sumone know!!!
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I think your mom owes you the money for some therapy. She probably has some health insurance that can cover some of it, too. In the meantime, talk to a school counselor/psychologist/nurse. It's great that being molested as a child didn't ruin your life, but you may develop issues later if you just "sit on it."
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you should defidently talk to ur mom about discussing it with the kids mom or something i mean if its bothering u that much u should totally do something about i mean..woww..well juss keep it in mind to talk to ppl about it..hope i helpedd
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Why would your mom do that to you? She's supposed to be responsible and not let that happen to her child. Well anyways, you should go to a therapist or some kind of councelor. Hope I helped :)
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i cant believe ur mom would do that to you..some people become very tramatized..u should of told an authority figure when u got a little older...how old was this guy..?
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If I were you I would go to a therapist. These things need to be let out in the open and talked about. If not a therapist, then your school councelor. It will help. If you need anything else just IM me on aim or drop it in the inbox.
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