Ok so im going out with this guy... lets call him Aaron. And well idk i really like him but im not sure if he likes me at all. He always hangs out with this group of girls and they all r nice to me but 1. And thats fine with me cuz i dont like her either but anyways... im not sure if he likes me . but i hav another problem. His bestfriend um... lets say Bob. likes me he is my Ex. and so like everytime he sees me or talks to me online he is like "hey Sexy" and im mean is that bad. Him and my boyfriend are like bestfriends. and i kno "aaron" is gonna get mad.
but the thing is i kinda like "bob" too. idk wut to do im so confused. help
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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:37 pm: i think that yu shuld consider the fact that if this guy "aaron" is with yu..then he must lyk yu or else he wuldnt be with yu!!
and for yur ex ... think about why yu guyz broke up the first time around and decide if itz really worth goin thru again..
hoped this helped!! drop me a line if yu need more help;)
beatlovedown answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:09 pm: I think you need to take some time and think really about who made you happy. If "bob" is your ex then there had to be a reason for it.Right? "Aaron" is probably a very outgoing guy, he likes women. Theres nothign wrong with hanging out them. And think about it, if he liked one of the girls why woudl he be dating you? Why would he go out with you when he has all these girls he could flirt with? Maybe because...they're just friends? And he likes you like a "girlfriend"? =). Its okay to be close with "bob"...unless the closeness can cause some trouble between "aaron" and "bob". Don't ever go on those grounds, the ground between best friends. Egh terrible. Bring too much trouble. Heh. Take some time and think about who you really want in your life. Or you could just be friends with both and have the advantage of flirting with each without worrying about a boyfriend? Take sometime and think about it. Rate me?
mshonest4eva answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:32 pm: if you really love "aaron", then you cant give "bob" a second thought. that is what your relationship is about. You have to dedicate yourself to him, and cant say you love him, and be really thinking about"bob". But if you realize that aaron isnt the one for you, then you have to be totally sure. You could dump him....but that would get very messy, as a lot of girls with columns here will tell you. If it doesnt work out, oh well, but dont force it to go down the toilet. Always check your options.
superstar10 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:09 pm: blive me there is always one that you like more than the other and you gotta find out which one that is so you can be happy. ive been through something like this before antrust me there is always one that you like more than the other. [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
HeyErica answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:37 pm: Well lettes call u anna/ your going out with Arron huh i think u should go with bob cuz he's actually there for u [ HeyErica's advice column | Ask HeyErica A Question ]
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