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Boyfriends sister?
I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??
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Just this one! Ive been in that whole situation before and i know its not cool to be in the middle of your boyfriend and his sister/your friend! Chances are that she wanted to make you feel that way because shes jealous that your spending more time to her brother than you are her! Why dont you talk to her about it because im sure his mom isint immature enough to lie about something so childish! P.S. Im sure you arent ditzy! :*:SaRa:*:
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I think you should definetely just stear clear of there house until this whole problem is resolved...Hope everythings okay...
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alright reguardless who really said what, just forget about it. i know that may be hard. but just do it for the sake of your relationship. do you really wanna risk messing up your relationship or having problems over a silly thing like being ditsy. so what if you are. just be the bigger person and forget about it.
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what's wrong with being ditzy?!*giggles* ha jk, but no... for real, who cares! I don't see anything wrong with being ditzy! Don't even worry about it, just forget about the whole thing and pretend is never happened! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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I think that you shuld stay clear of that house for a few dayz ... but also, try and make friendz wit his sis bc maybe she dont lyk yu and is making up liez ....or maybe his mom dont lyk yu..but then again, she is an adult so she wuldnt necessarily lie about wut she said and wut she didnt...
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the sister might think you used her to get to her brother. i bet she is the one that is lying about the comment. you have every right to be at his house, you didnt cause this problem, whoever lied did and they need to resolve it. yeah its embarrasing to be called names, but to quote captian jack sparrow " sticks and stones, love"
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you should just tell them all how u feel...and i know it will be embarrassing but u will get threw it n it wont last for ever..one of them is lying...and mayb the sister is juss doing that for attention u never know she mite think ur taking her brother from her and she is trying to make ur life hell..u never know there are tons of different possibilitys just believe whats in ur heartt...
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