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What you do when your girlfriend tells you she likes your friend?
Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?
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"I know when he's been on your mind
That distant look is in your eyes
I thought with time you'd realize it's over, over
It's not the way I choose to live
And something somewhere's gotta give
A share in this relationship gets older, older
You know I'd fight for you but how could I fight somone who isn't even there
I've had the rest of you now I want the best of you I don't care if that's not fair
Cuz I want it all
Or nothing at all"
I think you need to talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you love her so much and you dont want to share her. So you're sorry but she'll have to pick between you and your bestfriend. You dont mean to be rude, but its way to painful for you. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Nobody deserves to be treated like this. Hope it all works.
anna
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Tell her honestly what you feel. She will be grateful that you can say your feelings and will most likely say what is on her mind. :) Hope I helped!
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i t0taly sEe wEre yuR c0minq fr0m. iF mY b0yfriEnd ever liKed an0thEr gErl whiLe wE weRe g0ing 0ut, iD kill him. You sh0uld asK her who she likes more, you 0r ur best friend. aSk hEr wh0 shes happier wiTh. iF shEs happier wiTh y0u. q00d. bT iF shEsz happier wiTh ur besT buD, thEn leaVe tHe biTch. iF y0u loved her y0u w0uld wanT her t0 bEe happy rite? s0 if shes happy with ur best friend, then thats great, i guess.
x3_Renald
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Ask her who she likes the most tell her that if she likes ur bestfriend more then u dont want her to keep leading you on.Tell your feelings to her about the whole situation n u 2 work it out! tell me how it goes! n good luck
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I think you two should take a break.You're right..it won't be the same if she likes someone else.Of course you want her to be with you, 'n you're also right about the fact that you can't force her to be with you.I suggest you two take a break, to straighten her feelings 'n your feelings.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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i know you love her and it would be hard, but i think you should tell her that you two should take a break to get her feelings all straighted out and tell her how you feel about the fact she likes your best friend.it's not really fair to either of you if she likes another person and if you have cope with the fact that she likes another person.Good luck.
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Well person it sounds to me that your going through wut my sister is goin through she just broke up with her boyfriend Duy cause she found out she liked her best-friend omar she says she doesnt wanna hurt Duy but i know that she is hurting him not being with him. Its sad i always said something negaive about him. But it just turns out that i just want them to be together. Personally omar understands wut ivanna goes through and duy just insists that he love heryou guys dont no wu tlove is and if u do it stabs you in the back. i still think she should go with Duy. but she choose omar oh well. well hopefully she make up her mind cause its so confusing and tyering. i Now wish omar and ivanna the best. Sorry Duy u may or may not understand but only ivanna now's. So all i have to say is just be friends just dont mess up yalls relationship cause its hurting ivanna.
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ur doing the right thing to not force her to choose you. just tell her that she does need to make a decision. but give her like a time limit. be like "so whats ur decision. and if she says idk but like well then idk if i wanna be wit you. or something like that. cuz she needs to know that your not gonna wait forever and that...you really want to know. but once again dont get to the annoying part. i hope i helped...good luck..
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well have a talk with her and say you can go on a date with my best friend and if you end up loving him more then we aren't meant to be...even though you love her his will be hard for sure...but try to bring back memories of you two and make her feel the love she had when you first dated
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HeY! I think as long as shes not flirting w/ him and everything then you'll be okay. Just make sure you know about everything thats goin on cuz you don't want her cheatin on ya.But if she does...don't take her back cuz like i've seen so many guys that end up takin back girls that cheat on em and then they cheat on them AGAIN! So good luck w/ her. Hope everything works out okay..{drop one in my inbox to tell meh how it all works out k?}
<3 tasha
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What you should do is give her time to think things over and if u say u really love her try to understand wuts shes going through but do put boundries cause that shyt is wack if i were you i would of given up on him well in ur case her.
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well u should mostly talk to her about it and figure out what makes her like him its gonna feel wierd n it mite hurt but its normal to feel that way and urrite u cant force her too be wit u..mayb u should talk to ur bestfriend about it too..ask him how he feels about it n if he likes her back if they like each other mayb they should go out but it would hurt alot but babe its normal the pain wont last forever...
hope i helped!
good luck hun!
x0 MisTy 0x
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threats work pretty good
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Tell her that you love her and you really want to stay with her, but if letting her be with someone else will make her happy, then so be it cuz yu only want whats best for her and her happiness..now, her being with yur best friend is going to be VERY hard to see and be around..maybe yu shuld explain to her that yu understand how she lykz yur friend and all, but it wuld make yu feel really really uncomfortable to be around them kissing and everything...so then maybe her and yur best friend can see eachother when youre not around and hang out alone..but wen theyre around yu, they can calm it down a bit.
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