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is he cheating?
this is a continuation to my question from earlier about the boyfriend doing the new things in bed.
well i asked him where they came from and he told me that we needed to try new things. alot of people told me he may or may not be cheating. like i said im just suspicious becuase we havent had sex in a while, and then all of a sudden we do and its all this crazy wild shit. i'm not saying that i didnt like it... its just strange. strange since we havnt done it in a while, and also cuz he didnt even like discuss these new techniques with me, he just went about them. and of course i went with them cuz they werent bad ideas and all. also, i am pregnant, so like my sex drive is always down, and his is always up. i read that this is very normal, like there is just something that turns guys on about thier woman being pregnant, and there is something that turns woman off about being pregnant, i guess cuz we get all fat. but yeah, because of my low sex drive, i kinda have been pushing him away. could there also be a possibility that he just gave me some space to wait for me to want to do it again? or maybe he got self consious, and was thinking he wasnt that good anymore and wanted to find some new techniques for us to do to make things better? i dont know, but i am like really beating myself up wondering where he got them from. what i really need is a guys oppinion. and if there may be any girls who have experienced this sort of situation that would be good too.
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i thnk maybe since u were pushin him away he thought that u werent intersted in the same kinda sexual things that u 2 always do. So he found some new things.I dont think hes cheating on you! Congrats on the baby! hope everything works out.GoOd lUck
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well, i can relate to you about not having sex in awhile and then the next time we have sex that there were some new moves poppin up. i dont know, i never really thought about it up until now.. but i sorta kinda think you have nothing to worry about. we all know, guys watch porn and all that crap so they can always learn it from there. i mean, sometimes during sex, i just do different things that are out of the usual now and then as well, but i never slept with any other guy or cheated on him.. you know what i mean? i can definitely see where youre coming from with all of this, but i dont think you should worry too much. a beautiful pregnant woman like you shouldnt worry soo much.. you cool grl, you straight. if anything, hit me up, ill beat his ass. you know where to find me *wink <333
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Ok,I will reiterate what I said earlier,you're blaming your guy for something he probably didn't do. Some guys get turned on by pregnant women,it's a little unusual but it could happen. The thought that you have both of your lives inside of you can be a turn on. You get turned off because you've gained some weight and you feel insecure about yourself. I don't think he's cheating on you sweety.
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Well im a guy, so heres my opinion. Has he ever cheated on u b4? if he has then there is no reason why u cant think that he is doing it again, and is he the type of guy that would give u space with sex, when u wanted it? those are things u should think about, i think u need to talk to him and ask him, ask him to tell u the truth, when u ask where he got them from, he shouldnt answer with, just thought we should try new things, it should be an honest answer. all i can say is that, communication is the most important tool in a relationship, if there is no communication, then there is no relationship, see? well i hope my male opinion helps, does this answer rate good?
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i responded earlier but i think u should tell him how u feel and ask him where he got the ideas from i mean if it isnt his kid mayb he is trying to proove that hes better then the father...just plz confront him about it and ask him where he got the ideas from but dont say say anything about u asuming that he is cheating on u because he mite get defensive about it..well i hope i helped good luck hun i wish u the best of luckk...
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hey, i answered yur question earlier as well..and for this question i have to say just come out and explain this to him..make him tell yu where he got it from .. after all, if he isnt cheating..he shuld have nuthing to worry about!!! simply ask him to tell yu where hez gettin all these ideas from!! and pregnant woman are beautiful!..and yes, yur sex drive may be lowered, but then yur guy shuld want to take care of yu and be home wit yu mostly...so he shuldnt even have time to cheat ...if hez not the dad, he shuld still care about yu and this baby...and still want to take care of yu while yur pregnant..so my advice is to plz just ask him..im sure he'll have no problem tellin yu where hez gettin this from!! and also, is there any other suspisions that lead yu to think hez cheating besidez the sex thing??
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well i wouldnt freak out about him cheating on u until you got some real hard evidence. and i bet he just wanted some new techniques to impress you. if u accused him of cheating he'd probably get all defensive about it and there'd probably be a fight. i'd definetly go get a pregnancy test though if youre worried about that. good luck i hope everything turns out ok
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Ok, I read your earlier post, but didn't respond to it. I really don't think you have a whole lot to worry about. I have been in this situation, when my boyfriend first went to college. We had always talked online and he was researching Karma Sutra techniques....(and he watched a lot of porn and got ideas)
I was worried too when he came back the first time, but I talked it over with him and eventually learned to not think about him ever doing something with someone else. Just go with it and enjoy all the new things. Go and talk to him and ask him exactly where he got the idea's from.
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