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Two friends gone becuase of one fight with one. Long but ple
I used to have 2 best friends. Arina** nd Stacie** (** names have been changed) and I know 3 is a tricky number to work with when it comes to friends. So one night me and stacie were texting each other and shes like "i got a bf" and I say, "really, who?" "tyler" then I say, "wuts his last name?" "i dunno" then I say "and let me guess...u never met him before?" and she got all offended and called me a bitch when I was just kidding, cuz she went out with this guy tht lives in P.A and never met him before. So we stared fighting over the text messaging bickering back and forth. And we haven't been friends since June. And I don't think we ever will be again. But the sad part is my (favorite) other best friend, arina, turned against me for some reason and I think its because stacie is tellin her a bunch a trash about me. So me and Arina stopped talking to me and I really want to talk to her and ask her why shes mad at me. Its so painful it makes me cry. We were like the bestest friends. I was more close with arina than anyone. We shared such good times. I just don't know what to do cuz one day arina stared giving me the silent treatment without telling me why. So she just left me in the dark. I do not know how to solve my problem at all. Can you help me? I miss arina! :`(
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Alrighty. Well this is all to typical for me. This is how almost every day of my life is except I am usually stuck in the middle. Try and get Arina and Stacie to meet up with you somewhere and try talking to them. See why they are mad at you and tell Stacie that you were just fooling around when you texted her and guessed that she had never meet him. Maybe Stacie was jealous of you (just a thought) and wanted you to think that she got a boyfriend so that she could brag about something. She might not have had one at all but made it up, and she might not have had an answer for your questions and she started to freak out cause you doubted her. (this is all a very very large guess but you never know) So just try talking to them and figure out whats up. Good Luck!!
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call arina and ask to please dont hang up and talk to her or if that doesn't work try to pull her aside and talk to her.
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i think you should write arina a letter. and i guess apologize to stacie. girl dont worry youll get your friend back, so just be you. get a friend to tell them or like i said write a letter. if she is a true friend she would come talk to you and explain at least. well if you need more advice remember HeyErica ok take care!! BYE BYE good luck!!!!!
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Maybe ask one of your close friends to find out whats going with her.Like have them askher and belike why are you and {your name} fighting or whats up w/ your and {your name}. Or try goign to her hosue when you knwo someone wil be home and ask liek her parents if you can talk to her for a minute so you knwo she wont just throw you out without talking or anything.Sorry i kept writing {your name}, I just dont knwo your name.lol.Well i hope you get your friend back i knwo what it feels like.
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