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i miss him...:(
my mom wont let me see my boyfriend at all. he doesnt have a computer so i cant e-mail him or IM him. and my mom has total control over the phone. i havent been on a date with him at all! ever!! and i've been going out with him for about a month and a half. i wont see him in school because we're in different parts. i miss him so much and i love him so much. what should i do? heeelllppp!!
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Maybe if your mom isn't comfortable with you two dayting, she might not object to just hanging out with other pplz. Kinda like dating just in a bigger group. You could always try to convince her that you'd be okay if she's scared for you. Just dont drive her nuts about it but take it easy!!!
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well try to meet after school but if you guys are nevr free then dump him dear i know it not what you want to hear but your parents should let you run your life it would be helpfull if you told why they wont let you guys see each other he hites you then your to good for him but if its just because you guys are in diffrent grades you should stand up for yourself and take action but atleast you got it easy im 13 and i have not ever had a boyfriend because my dad says im to young and that i cant date til'l im marred .and for christmas you should buy him a computer that would be a great gift so you guys can talk but really theres no hope i watch the Jerry Spinger Show and he says that if both sides of family members dont want them to date if you guys get married its doomed so you shoulden't put your self threw it .im not trying to sound mean but it would also be helpfull to know your age because if your my age then you should dump him for other fish in the sea but if your 21 with nothing else to do then this stick with him or atleast try to get yourself doing something but the way you say my mom i think you could be 14-15 am i right im not to good at that but still try to work something out with your parents or just give him the heve ho let him go its not worth to put yourself threw but what ever your heart dezires
good luck !,
katie,tootsierollsweet999
ps,tell me what happens please
and remember dont let people take your life its your for a reson :}
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Ask your mom if you can invite him (and possibly his family) over for dinner or something. She may respond to that, because it gets her involved, and it would be non-threatening to her. Once she gets to know him, she'll probably trust you two more.
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hehe, shesh this reminds me of.. well.. me! ye neway, its a bitch to be honest, your mum will most likely never understand, you could try showing her your maturity, that she can trust you with him, i was told that if you were to just invite him round, introduce him with the family or whomever there, to watch a movie with you, or to dosomething with you two and some one lese present, then she will eventually let go and trust you, keep on doing that, NEVER go behind her back, that seriously gets messy, time is what you're gna need to be coping with
rate me dude xx
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how the hell do you talk to him in the first place? maybe you should try and comprimise with your mom and if that doesnt work then sneak behind her back and see him or call him or whatever. try and get him to get an email adress and go to a library or something to check his email so that you and him can email each other. it worked for me, it could work for you.
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You need to talk your mom and ask her why you can't see him. It's your decision if you want to see your boyfriend. You got to respect your mom because your her daughter and she just doesn't want anything bad to happen to you. Explain to her how not seeing your boyfriend hurts you. Make her feel guilty about it. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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Why don't you go to your friends house and tell her your situation thenask her if you can give him a call.Then set up meeting somewhere and tell your mom you will be with your friends without giving her any reason to think your going to see your bf.If that doesn't work then just ask her plain in simple. Good Luck!
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Tell your mom.. that you wanna go to the movies or the mall with your friends. And acually your gunna meet your boyfriend there. And you guys can hang out.
Hopefully that will work.
I'll keep praying.
*Soraa
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wow, talk about a sucky situation. i dont WANT to say this but i think this is the only way. you should tell your mom that your going to a friends house and then go somewhere with your bf. if that doesnt work for you then show your mom that you can be resposable. clean when your not told or something like that. i hope i helped out. later gater.
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hey! this is my question! haha. since i dont kno the answer to this, i wont reply. cuz its my question!!! but i hate the fact that im the first person to say something! argh. ok but please help me people. l o l
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