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my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here
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haha trust me, i used to do that all the time with my boyfriends. its easier for some girls to talk about it over the phone, but when their in person, trust me its just shyness that comes over them. you see, on the phone they dont have to go through with what they are saying, so its easy for them to just say it, cause its only verbal.. but then in person, when it comes time to actually go through with it physically, they become really intimidated and shy...talk to her about it if you want, goodluck
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She might be scared, alot of people are. You might just half to make the first move. When you say she doesnt act like it, are you with a group or alone? She might not want to talk about it infront of other people.
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Girls are strange, lol. I know, because I do the same thing. I talk quite often about sex with my boyfriend and when it comes to it, I get nervous. But the thing is, she won't make the first move. You have to do that. Reach for her pants or something while you guys are into making out, see what she does. If she stops you, then leave it alone. If she lets you, then I guess you guys are ready.
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well a lot of girls say things but then when it comes to a time when they could do the things they talk abouy they get to nervous or they begin to wonder if you want to do the same things. So either just ask her if she really wants to or if shes scared. Or you could just make the first moves and see how she feels after a little bit. Hope i helped
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girl can mean things when there not face to face with you but then they can when there face to face feel nervous. This is normal and your going to have to get used to it and let her adjust. Try to kiss her and take her by suprise! >3
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well talk too her be like do you actualy want to or not jus say what you have on your mind but nothin to0o mean lol !!
♥ Samra
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She is probably shy and just wants you to make the first move.
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their is a difference with saying and doing and she is saying i bet she trying to keep you interested but if you want to get some then i suggest you to kiss her in the "weak spot" but don't force her just like your not really trying.
I hope that helps good luck!
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it`s always easier to tell people things. especially like THAT. on the phone or on the internet. rather than in person. she is prolly just shy.* bring it up when you guys are in person. && see what she has to say. make her feel comfortable. you guys ARE in a relationship. so she should feel comfortable to tell you anything. maybe she needs a reminder of that. ♥x0xMALiBUBARBiiE111
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Thats a very confusing thing. Talk to her about it on the phone adn see why she isnt talking about it in person
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It's probably because she finds it easier to say it over the phone than face to face! Shes building up her confidence so that eventually she'll be able to behave like that to your face! Be patient and eventually that'll happen i bet! You could always turn it into a little joke next time she starts talking like that and say something like "you're totally different on the phone- you'd never act this way in person- i really like these 2 sides of you!" and then laugh! See what she says back ;)
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Well she sounds like a tease to me.. Ask her why she does that.. Maybe she don`t mind talkin about it but when its time to do it she gets shy and nervous.. Girls do that trust me.. So i`d just ask her whats up with it.. ♥ Dez
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She's probably just shy. Tell her you are confused and talk to her about it all.
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