Member Since: December 11, 2005
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I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep trying to go down there even when he knows, and when he does I push his hand away and he sort of seems mad and doesn't get it but sometimes he acts like he does get it, so I am not sure why he keeps doing this? (link)
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3 years is along time. if he really loves you he will understand and obay your wish but if he doesnt i dont know what to tell you maybe hes not the one.
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xXSexyLadyXx
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I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks. (link)
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Dreams dont always mean everything or anything at all. just exsplane to him that its just a dream and it didnt mean anyting and that if you want to have sex with anyone it would be him.
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xXSexyLadyXx
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My friend told me her doctor said it is possible to get your period while your pregnant once or twice. I would guess she means in the earlier stages of pregnancy, but im wondering if thats true. Also, lets say you had unprotected sex and then 3 days later got your period which lasted for about 2 and a half days, is it possible that you are pregnant or is it certain you are not? (link)
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You half to wait a week or two before you can tell, a pregnacy test wont worck or going to a doctor wont worck, they wont be able to tell unless its been a week or two atleast
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Hi. I'm 13/m and my sister is 14/f. Last night she was IMing a friend from another state who said he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. Then they got into a discussion on why it's right or wrong to have sex before age 16. My sister believes that she should wait until she is 16. I belief any pre-marital sex is wrong, and I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married.
Later in their conversation (I was being a little brother and looking over her shoulder) he said that my sister's boyfriend wants sex too. My sister said no, but the other guy was just like "ooooooo yes he does". Then I remembered that theory that all a guy ever wants is sex. Hence, the song Punk Rock 101 by Bowling For Soup: "She thinks that it's love, but to him, it's sex!"
I don't trust her boyfriend. I've transferred a call to my sister, and he really didn't sound all that great. Also, my sister refuses to let me meet him in any way. He can't come over, because I just can't meet him. I tried to IM him. My sister told him to block me. What the hell?
I'm afraid of two things: number one, does he want sex? Saying no is probably harder than it sounds... and number two, will this change her image of him? Will she be consious of the fact that he may or may not want sex? I know if I were in her shoes, I would. I don't know... I'm just worried for her... (link)
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1) of course he does what guy doesnt
2) she might not like him as much anymore for think about that about her, orrrrr it would make her feel sexy and start to dress sluty around him, teas him, and lead him on
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xXSexyLadyXx
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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance. (link)
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Listen to her, you might not know how it feels but there are sometimes when im on my period that all i want to do is sleep and lay on the couch and go to sleep, be real sweet to her help her out alittle, do whatever you can to help. If she comes to school looking like crap comfort her and tell her she looks too beautiful for words to ever discribe.
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xXSexyLadyXx
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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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Well im a girl, hints the name, i would rather have someone whnen they're confident and ready than when they're scared. So if i were you (which im not) I would wait till your good and ready and wait for someone that you really care about.
hope i helped
xXSexyLadyXx
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my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here (link)
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She might be scared, alot of people are. You might just half to make the first move. When you say she doesnt act like it, are you with a group or alone? She might not want to talk about it infront of other people.
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well my friend i think lied about being pregnant and after a while to get her way out of it she said she lost the baby which i think is an awful lie. but if you do lose your baby when your say 3 to 5 months pregnant do they like have to take it out of you? or does it just like go away? i feel like an idiot :/ ill rate any answer (link)
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No need o feel like an idiot. You half to go into surgery and they take it out. Things that big dont just disapear, i think.
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xXSexyLadyXx
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
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There is nothing to worry about just answer the questions truthfully and nothing bad will happen if u dont want your parents to know then tell them not to tell your parents or u could tell them. I mean im sure they will understand, they know our not ganna be a virgin for forever.
xXSexyLadyXx
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