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Dream.
I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks.
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Dreams dont always mean everything or anything at all. just exsplane to him that its just a dream and it didnt mean anyting and that if you want to have sex with anyone it would be him.
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There is no reason why you had that dream. When he gets home you both just need to sit down and talk and say it ment nothing.hoped I help and good luck.if you need anymore advise just ask and please rait.thanks.
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my mum says when you have a dream it always means the opposite- its true it always happens to me. so maybe gonna have sex with him.
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you could just tell him straight off your feelings, like tell him you love him more than anything and you wouldnt do something like that to hurt him. and tell him your not interested in sex right now. and if he doesnt understand, then i dont know what would make him. so i hope i helped...
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Ok well I don't know why your boyfriend is getting pissed about some dream you had.. It's not like you can control your dreams. I mean if he's getting mad about this he's being stupid. Tell him you've never cheated on him, and you DON'T plan on it. And.. Remind him that you love him more than anything.
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You can't control what you dream about. Sometimes dreams just all of a sudden happen and weird things happen in them. I mean if you have a dream about dieing it doesn't happen does it? Just tell him you love him more than anything in the world. Really, just tell him how you feel about it. He'll listen.
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You need to tell your boyfriend that you can't control your dreams. That's the truth. I've had some pretty weird dreams about things that I've never even seriously thought about before.
Just tell your boyfriend the truth. Tell him something along the lines of this:
"_____ (name), I love you more than anything in the world. I would never cheat on you. I'm not interested in having sex with other people."
It sounds kind of simple, but it should work. He knows you're the not the type of person that would betray his trust, right? I would tell him that, too.
You might wanna tell him that just because you had a dream about having sex with someone else, doesn't mean you want to have sex with someone else. It was a dream, nothing more.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
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ensure him that you love him and no one else.and it was just a dream as long as you dont know the guy. it could have been brad pitt.so dont stress .tell him your all his
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Tell him that you love him and that it didn't mean anything and that how could he doubt you.Be patient right now he's upset also comfort him spend as much time possible with him and keep telling him that you love him and no matter what you will never cheat on him and that how would he feel if he had a dream like that and wouldn't he want you to understand him that it was just a dream nothingelse.Don't worry he will get over it.Trust me.Don't feel bad.
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it depens on what kind of dream you had
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