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second thoughts about love
okay so theres this boy that ive been datin for wel over 6 motnhs and i really like him alot.. and well latley theres little things that are startin to annoy me like just little things that get to you after being with a person for a long time.. and wel ive also been having dreams about my X and its starting to make me remember all the times we had.. and how we had alotta fun together and i still and attracted to him but i dont wanna leave my boyfriend now because i dont think that my X will love me as much as my boyfriend now does.. and i dont wanna leave something that might be a really good thing..
please help thanks
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Well we never can really control our dreams. I mean if we had a dream about hitting someone, whenever we awake, that's not going to give us the urge to hit them is it? But yet dreams are also sometimes our subconcious telling us something, which in your case is that you like your ex. But think.. he's your EX. There is obviously something that went wrong in the relationship which caused you two to break up.. and what if that happened again? I think you should stay with the new boyfriend because it does sound like it is a really good thing. And good thing that you're thinking this through and didn't end up breaking up with your boyfriend just to find out your ex might not like you. You have to also take that thought into consideration. Also about the dreaming since your getting reminded of all those memories with your ex, that's half the reason you're probably getting attracted to him again is because of all teh times you shared and that's probably it. It doesn't sound like you were attracted to your ex before you had the dreams, so I think that just might be what's triggering the attraction to him is all the memories. It makes you miss him. But you must also think of all the memories you could make with your new boyfriend that could be just as great as the memories you had with your ex. Just follow your heart. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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go with your feelings... try this new guy out and if it doesnt work then try ur X. who knows if he will have feelings for you. soo try something new.
hope i helped.
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Those things that he does that you don't really like after a while you wont even notice or you can even try just letting him know. Don't leave him for your ex because the other is your ex for a reason. That happens alot in relationships so try to keep things going but thinking bout ex's happens ALOT! I hope I helped good luck!
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i'm going through the same thing right now, and most definitly, get your ducks in a row, who do you love more???, it sounds as if you and ur x has been through more together and this has made your realationship stronger, as to where you and your boyfriend have not, i would like to hear more about this, go to my coulumn and e mail me if you would like ^_^
Jasmine,
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